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You hear it from your guy friends and you hear it from celebrities. It's that infamous phrase. "The most attractive things about a woman is confidence." The guys say it but is it really the truth.
I want to hear from the real guys out there. Is confidence really one of the biggest draws for you? If not what is? |
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im not a guy... but thats one of my biggest turn ons when it comes to men... so i would say it is very true.
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I am not a guy, but think about it this way... do you want to be with a guy with no confidence? How annoying that is... "you are so much better than me" "I am so ugly" "why can't I be as smart as you"
Annyoing.. Hope that helps |
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I vote "not true".
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I vote "not true". if you vote not true... let us know the real deal. |
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For me it's one of the big attractions. I don't want a girl who constantly needs attention to feel "loved". I like a lady that knows who she is, and accepts herself.
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You want honesty? Not true! The answer is...
BOOBS!!! |
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Now I know why all the guys were looking down my shirt :p
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OMG are you kidding me? Confidence is SO sexy! I've dated many different types of women and the ones I was the closest to were the ones that had hella confidence. I mean, I'm only one man but my god it drives me absolutely crazy
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there is no "one" thing, contrary to dchatwin (though that one thing, i.e., boobs, could be; lol). It is a "i know it when I see it." It may be a smile. It may be the way she acts. It may be her hair, her smell, her body, or, a combo. And yes, it may be confidence, though, I suspect Margaret Thatcher was confident, but she never turned me on.
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Edited by
RadiantRomantic
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Mon 11/19/07 03:14 PM
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I have to say that I find confidence in a man to be truly sexy as long as the confidence doesn't come off as cockiness. It is good to know that guys feel the same.
By the way, TheDoors, the boobs are what I use to lure a guy in when the confidence dosen't work!! |
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I appreciate a quiet confidence yes...but hate over confidence, self love...
I appreciate more as a guy humility, intelegence and grace. Of course, a nice rear view is always welcomed. Not a boob guy at all. I am primal I like the child bearing hips! In fact, I dont think there is much to think about when it come to women. It is so primal and unreasonable...attraction is relative. I say just go with the flow. |
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it's what you make it.
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and there is a fine line between the two...
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exactly
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and there is a fine line between the two... Agreed! |
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and there is a fine line between the two... Agreed! 10-4 |
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I appreciate a quiet confidence yes...but hate over confidence, self love... I appreciate more as a guy.... humility, intelegence and grace. Of course, a nice rear view is always welcomed. Not a boob guy at all. I am primal I like the child bearing hips! In fact, I dont think there is much to think about when it come to women. It is so primal and unreasonable..If you think to much about it you get left behind...attraction is relative. I say just go with the flow. |
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I appreciate a quiet confidence yes...but hate over confidence, self love... I appreciate more as a guy.... humility, intelegence and grace. Of course, a nice rear view is always welcomed. Not a boob guy at all. I am primal I like the child bearing hips! In fact, I dont think there is much to think about when it come to women. It is so primal and unreasonable..If you think to much about it you get left behind...attraction is relative. I say just go with the flow. Tell that to some of the ladies that do not respond to your heart felt introductions. |
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I love a girl with low self esteem
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