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Topic: I just gotts know....
RadiantRomantic's photo
Mon 11/19/07 02:52 PM
You hear it from your guy friends and you hear it from celebrities. It's that infamous phrase. "The most attractive things about a woman is confidence." The guys say it but is it really the truth.

I want to hear from the real guys out there. Is confidence really one of the biggest draws for you? If not what is?

Tameka's photo
Mon 11/19/07 02:53 PM
im not a guy... but thats one of my biggest turn ons when it comes to men... so i would say it is very true.

Dragonl0ve's photo
Mon 11/19/07 02:54 PM
I am not a guy, but think about it this way... do you want to be with a guy with no confidence? How annoying that is... "you are so much better than me" "I am so ugly" "why can't I be as smart as you"

Annyoing..

Hope that helps

no photo
Mon 11/19/07 02:54 PM
I vote "not true".

Tameka's photo
Mon 11/19/07 02:56 PM

I vote "not true".



if you vote not true... let us know the real deal.

Totage's photo
Mon 11/19/07 02:56 PM
For me it's one of the big attractions. I don't want a girl who constantly needs attention to feel "loved". I like a lady that knows who she is, and accepts herself.

thedoors's photo
Mon 11/19/07 02:58 PM
You want honesty? Not true! The answer is...

BOOBS!!!

:tongue:

Dragonl0ve's photo
Mon 11/19/07 02:59 PM
Now I know why all the guys were looking down my shirt :p

dchatwin's photo
Mon 11/19/07 03:03 PM
OMG are you kidding me? Confidence is SO sexy! I've dated many different types of women and the ones I was the closest to were the ones that had hella confidence. I mean, I'm only one man but my god it drives me absolutely crazy :tongue: :wink: drinker

no photo
Mon 11/19/07 03:11 PM
there is no "one" thing, contrary to dchatwin (though that one thing, i.e., boobs, could be; lol). It is a "i know it when I see it." It may be a smile. It may be the way she acts. It may be her hair, her smell, her body, or, a combo. And yes, it may be confidence, though, I suspect Margaret Thatcher was confident, but she never turned me on.

RadiantRomantic's photo
Mon 11/19/07 03:14 PM
Edited by RadiantRomantic on Mon 11/19/07 03:14 PM
I have to say that I find confidence in a man to be truly sexy as long as the confidence doesn't come off as cockiness. It is good to know that guys feel the same.

By the way, TheDoors, the boobs are what I use to lure a guy in when the confidence dosen't work!!:tongue:

LatinTLC's photo
Mon 11/19/07 03:20 PM
I appreciate a quiet confidence yes...but hate over confidence, self love...
I appreciate more as a guy humility, intelegence and grace.

Of course, a nice rear view is always welcomed. Not a boob guy at all. I am primal I like the child bearing hips!


In fact, I dont think there is much to think about when it come to women. It is so primal and unreasonable...attraction is relative.
I say just go with the flow.
glasses

itsmevic's photo
Mon 11/19/07 03:23 PM
it's what you make it.

Troyd879's photo
Mon 11/19/07 03:23 PM
and there is a fine line between the two...

itsmevic's photo
Mon 11/19/07 03:23 PM
exactly

aje26's photo
Mon 11/19/07 03:24 PM

and there is a fine line between the two...


Agreed!

itsmevic's photo
Mon 11/19/07 03:25 PM


and there is a fine line between the two...


Agreed!



10-4

LatinTLC's photo
Mon 11/19/07 03:25 PM

I appreciate a quiet confidence yes...but hate over confidence, self love...
I appreciate more as a guy.... humility, intelegence and grace.

Of course, a nice rear view is always welcomed. Not a boob guy at all. I am primal I like the child bearing hips!


In fact, I dont think there is much to think about when it come to women. It is so primal and unreasonable..If you think to much about it you get left behind...attraction is relative.
I say just go with the flow.
glasses

itsmevic's photo
Mon 11/19/07 03:26 PM


I appreciate a quiet confidence yes...but hate over confidence, self love...
I appreciate more as a guy.... humility, intelegence and grace.

Of course, a nice rear view is always welcomed. Not a boob guy at all. I am primal I like the child bearing hips!


In fact, I dont think there is much to think about when it come to women. It is so primal and unreasonable..If you think to much about it you get left behind...attraction is relative.
I say just go with the flow.
glasses



Tell that to some of the ladies that do not respond to your heart felt introductions.

stevenpwis's photo
Mon 11/19/07 03:55 PM
I love a girl with low self esteem

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