Topic: What do you need in a partner? Do you know? | |
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I need love faithfulness, honesty, the truth and someone I can talk to and get along with.
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having a partner that see herself as one and knows the gravity of being one...
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loving and respect.. someone who can make me smile and strongs
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I don't know if I really NEED a partner but I would like to be in cahoots with someone who gets me. Perfect mind and body are fantasies that don't live in my world. A female who's happy with herself is a great start, add a little humor and a big smile and we're there.
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Cos I believe most never think about this...
IMO most never should. They should just do. Because sitting around thinking about it can easily lead to a lot of "bad" things. Like expectations too high, misunderstood needs. Things like finding someone that fulfills 200 needs. But the 1 need, you sat and cogitated on for 10 years and decided it's something you "truly" need, isn't fulfilled so you start sabotaging your relationship to go try and find someone that will fulfill that 1 thing. Totally entitled to your opinion, but to be honest, I'm surprised by it. If you just do -which is what most ppl do- and not know what you want or need at all, it will take forever to find a good match. I wasn't talking about every detail, like "On Sunday morning he has to do this and that. After lunch he has to do this or that." It's about knowing what you need in life, and in a partner. What does the man inside you need in a woman?
Someone smart enough to not sit around trying to figure everything out before they actually do something. I was smart enough to think about it, and it paid off big time! After I did, I got quality dates, and shortly after that I met him :) It's a huge time saver, plus it keeps you from getting disappointed time and again. Funny you don't see the difference between gaining insight in self (in what you need) and being a person who 'tries to figure everything out before they do something'. Big big difference! |
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The Security of how his love makes me feel ..that no matter what happens in life .. We will share it together and be each other's strength and bliss The safety of his embrace and desire for me . The way he cannot keep his body away from mine All of him ... |
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nice speaking, i agree with your opinion
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