Topic: Curious but nervous a friendship/relationship with a woma
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Tue 12/27/16 03:47 PM
Edited by MsLightSkin on Tue 12/27/16 03:59 PM
I never been with a woman but lately been really thinking about it. How do I break the ice or get ready for the experience if i try. Any mature advice ?

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Tue 12/27/16 04:23 PM
Well there are GBLT dating sights, night clubs and singles communities just be careful because there are just as many unsavory people in those groups as there are in the strait communities.

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Tue 12/27/16 04:30 PM
Thanks but nt a lesbian just curious and want to try. I wasn't looking to go out and search. Looking for advice

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Tue 12/27/16 04:34 PM

I never been with a woman but lately been really thinking about it. How do I break the ice or get ready for the experience if i try. Any mature advice ?


I think you said it perfectly and there very well may be some positive messages sent to you in the days to come. I think there are many woman who feel the same.

Good luck

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Tue 12/27/16 04:39 PM
I would hang around the produce isle of the local grocery and observe any coeds shopping for cucumbers.tongue2

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Tue 12/27/16 04:40 PM
I think you should go on a few dates with a women first so you you won't be so nervous ,but with anything that new you never tried before going to be scared or nervous but you try it .

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Tue 12/27/16 04:43 PM
Thanks

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Tue 12/27/16 05:16 PM
You are welcome , if I may ask are you trying to date a women ,wanna see if there a connection between u and another woman or see if you wanna be with a women?

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Tue 12/27/16 05:26 PM
No relationship just curious and want to experience something different

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Tue 12/27/16 05:33 PM
Edited by Godsfriend10 on Tue 12/27/16 05:38 PM

I never been with a woman but lately been really thinking about it. How do I break the ice or get ready for the experience if i try. Any mature advice ?

It seems from all indications that you are nervous or not sure if same sex relationship its best for you.
If you are not sure and something deep from within you tends to
gently kick against it .....then it is the red flag telling you are headed the wrong way.
Besides,why experiment with your emotions. Be sure its best for you and your kid(s) .How about the positive spiritual influence ,do you think you'll find it in those communities. Look before you leap!

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Tue 12/27/16 05:39 PM
Omg. Im nt looking for a relationship. Dnt judge me. I dnt need a spiritual adviser nor want the negativity. Its something someone wants to try n life. I am spiritual and very active in my church family . Only nervous bc I haven't done it before amd it doesn't mean im a lesbian.

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Tue 12/27/16 05:50 PM
Go for it move at ur own paste, we all had thing we wanna do or try that we are nervous to do some are different then others .

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Tue 12/27/16 06:00 PM
Edited by Godsfriend10 on Tue 12/27/16 06:22 PM

Omg. Im nt looking for a relationship. Dnt judge me. I dnt need a spiritual adviser nor want the negativity. Its something someone wants to try n life. I am spiritual and very active in my church family . Only nervous bc I haven't done it before amd it doesn't mean im a lesbian.

Lol...:smile: my dear I hadn't mentioned church or judged you..or called you a lesbian...:wink:
You wanted a matured piece of advice, so
this is my version of it.

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Tue 12/27/16 07:18 PM
Don't give negativity any attention because it feed off attention. I leaned at at young age if you don't have nothing nice to say don't say anything thing at all some people should take that advice