That is a stereotype. I am skinny and hate the hate to me but this ain't right.

People like what they like big/skinny, short/tall whatever. But come on!

I have seen it from all sides and it is disgusting. Women aren't (or shouldn't be) in competition with anyone. I have seen big girls put down skinny girls and skinny put down big girls and everything in between. Knock it off. I am skinny and damn proud. Stop putting other women down. I have been here since 07 when they had a fat chick club here and put down anyone skinny....until I spoke up. Shame on anyone putting others down

hahahaa..relax
I stand 5ft 10
wear a size 14/16
broad at shoulder and hip

ain't nuthin on me petite

yes I would agree in certain cultures/nationalities
that big round rubenist type women are idealised and sought out


but in the United States? there is a stigma attached to being overweight or outside what is considered the 'norm'

let's not pretend ignorance to this fact

Marilyn Monroe was what a size 12 and was considered a beauty

then Bo Derek came along as the perfect 10


now what is considered perfect a size 2?

any man that goes after a larger girl is accused of being a chubby chaser

only wanting a good cook, someone who will accept his less than steller behavior

Seriously? Things change. The stigma changes from curvy, fat , sk8nny and all over. It's a media controlled thing. Get real. I am skinny. Have been and always will be. I have been dismissed for it. I think what you posted (maybe taken wrong) was derogatory. Why put negative in it?

because stereotypes maybe somewhat loosely based on facts

now is it true 100 percent of the time? no there are exceptions

but this woud not be a stereotype if it did not happen a time or two


so ...especially when dealing with an online community

if a man comes on here stating he only likes BBW's then it may be wise to quesiton his motives

why state only weight? why not brunettes? freckles? shoe size?

might be wise to wonder

Not true all the time. It is media. Many gorgeous big women are models. It is how people feel about themselves. Unfortunately the media attacks everyone. Skinny chicks get criticism and jokes too

I have seen both thin women and larger women who look absolutely stunning.

I think it comes down to what the individual person thinks. And what weight they feel "good" in.

Madison Ave gave ( as still gives) the impression that all women should be reed thin. to the point where I look at their models and think " Anorexia". That to me is not attractive.. not sexy. I wish they would mix it up a bit to show the true sizes of American women.. because that is what American men like.. all different ones.

And I know thin women who look perfect thin.. its " them", their bone structure.. their family traits.. they look great.


Different people are attracted to different people. There is no right or wrong

Just individual taste.

Frankly it doesn't matter why as long as you are both getting what you want out of being with each other even if only for a short period of time.

If the size of the woman/women excites you, and they're excited also, then a good time can be had by all!

Everyone is beautiful to someone!
It's like the song says; If it Makes You Happy, It can't be that bad!