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| Topic: Yea, being shallow is my curse. | |
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Seriously it's like, something in my mind wont let me go after a girl if they are not attractive enough for me. Is that just wrong? Is it mean? Yet, I always have these girls, they could be the coolest chick ever, and yet If I am not attracted to them, I just end up neglecting the relationship, and then I am alone all over again. It's really frustrating for me. Any advice?
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You're 19. You'll learn eventually.
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umm yea, that doesn't help me dude. I know I am f**king 19.. what's a good way of pretending not to be shallow? what's a way I can get over this curse, and like a girl on the inside other then her material body. I understand the concept that we are all material bodys, but we are made up of energy. So why does it matter to me? i need answers.
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Edited by
Ready4theweekend
on
Wed 11/14/07 04:48 PM
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If you don't feel it inside it won't work. That's the end of it. If we could turn love on and off at will what would be so magical about it? Love is a matter for your heart not your head, so listen to your heart. Or whatever else guides you in those decisions. There are no answers to this question other than what I just gave you. This is the human equation it cannot be solved by logic or reason, but by feeling and emotion. Follow your instincts that is the onyl advice I can give.
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When you start thinking with the head on your shoulders instead of the other one..... you might see a difference.....but there's nothing wrong with wanting to feel attraction for the girl you're with. Different things attract different people.
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lol - i think it's just some of us who... well, we use the term "nuke" in the navy... Overthink some things. Just be yourself, and if people aren't attracted to that..., well you need to find some new friends.
Another thing to keep in mind... "Getting girls" isn't a readily accepted concept in the adult world. I don't hunt them or anything. I prefer to let them come to me. So relax - and don't try too hard. |
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Beauty is only skin deep!
ugly is to the bone! |
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maybe,,dude...you need to work on anger management a little more...and forget the girls for the time being.
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no physcial attraction babe...its hard to get passed that but you have to look within yourself...plus you are very young you have plenty of time ....
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haha quitchyour*****en! I deal with my anger just fine. You should take a sensitivity managment class.I understand the adult world. I don't go hunting for girls either dude. I do overthing things sometimes, but The adult world seems rather childish to me in the first place. I am simply wondering why my mind is holding me back from really being just chill with a girl, who isn't the most physically attractive.
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Awww, Neil, you are not being shallow. If you are not attracted to someone 'in that way,' you are not attracted to them. If IT is there, you can't force it.
Don't you worry, you will break many hearts and have your heart broken many times before you find the ONE.  M
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I appreciate the oppinions too.
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and LOL at KLC. That is so true!
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no worries neil my brother was that way hes over it now sooo i dont think its a forever thing
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#1 kiddo..I'm not a dude. #2, I say what I think. It just amazes me that you feel it necessary to actually ask a question like that. Get over yourself. If the girls you were attracted to were knocking on yur door..you wouldn't be here. =)
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kiddo? damn, sounds like someone needs to take an anger management class. 2nd of all I am aware they are not knocking on my door. I realize it is something to do with my attitude. You know your right though, i should of never even made a post like that. Because it's a quagmire of a question. There is no answer. I am young, dumb and full of cum and that's just the end of it. Dude.
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i should change my picture, people think I am mean spirited with this pic. haha
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LOL, kiddo was a form of endearment, sweetheart, certainly not said in anger. I'm not here to piss you off..I just shoot from the hip... ;)
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oooh I love Salvador Dali..
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maybe,,dude...you need to work on anger management a little more...and forget the girls for the time being. 
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