Awhile back I met this guy on the internet and he seemed interested. At first I wasnt but then he started saying he cared about me and wanted to keep seeing me. After awhile he said he was my man and i was his lady . We live in in different places and i only saw him once a month.Then one time he seemed distant and didnt respond to my ims or emails. After awhile he came on and told me he met someone, but still wanted to be friends. I am really hurt but i still like him. Should we go on as just friends. Also I am hoping he changes his mind.

ok if you realyl enjoy his company tahtn yes stay friends with him.....but.....be careful... dont torture yourself and stay freinds as a way of trying to change his mind. if he doesnt that will only hurt you. if you are going to be friends with him make sure you are ready for that to be the permanent state of things in case he doesnt change his mind. good luck though whatever you decide!

I wouldnt stay friends with him ....

Girl, hold your head high there is alot of fish out there i'm sure your momma told you that!

thanks that sound like good advice.

What I'd like to say I'd do is kick him to the curb, and don't give him the benefit of your friendship. But I know that's not the easy thing to do when you have feelings for someone. Really think about what is best for YOU...in my opinion I think you should back off and let him go, he'll only hurt you. Even if he changes his mind, what happens the next time a girl comes around...

Thanks berly

I hate this...So there is this guy and his roommate. I was in a wedding and that is how this all began. I was a little drunk so i went home with the guy i walked down the isle with the room mate well we did kiss and do a little more but than i ended liking the guy. And we had this huge fight because my best friend like the guy so i started liking the room mate. well we had this huge falling out and i ended not talking to neither one of them for about 3 months. we jsut started talking about a 3 weeks ago. things we great. i went over to their house last night and the guy and i ended up kissing and doing more. I get a text this after noon saying he just wants to be friends.

i swear i am always the bridesmaid never the bride!!!!!!!!!

as long as you have romantic feelings, you will never be able to be just friends.

i know i will always have a romantic feeling for him not matter what. gosh. relationships suck!

Last time i saw him was a week ago ........we hugged and kissed . what is this????!!

Unless you are interested in always being a 3rd wheel or second best, I'd say, chalk it up to a learning experience! Keep on walking and don't look back. You deserved to be #1. Just my thoughts, for what they are worth.

Good luck and hugs

hmmmm....ya I should just forget about him.

GOOD LUCK WITH IT

GOOD LUCK WITH IT

You dont want to be that person that they think of as a fall back plan u need to be the one and only plan they have.

I know what u mean Big ,I have thought about that. Yes I better look somewhere else even tho this feeling of " I still want him"is still with me. I hate this feeling knowing I have to let him go.But it has to be done. I hope I meet someone nice soon.

yea he sounds pretty inconsiderate to me, don't waste your time. If he really wanted to chill with you, he would talk to you more. haha just the fact he was trying to be like "I am your man", after he barely ever kicked it in person with you, tells me that he is fake. So yea.. follow your heart and listen to my advice... haha even know that last sentence doesn't make sense. We can be blinded by emotion sometimes, so go with your instincts.

Girl are you crazy!!!!!!!!!!!! get as far away from that man as you can. He seems to be the type to act on his impulses and staying friends with him will only make things worse, but he doesn't mean he really wants to be friends he just doesn't want there to be any hard feelings. He found someone right when you thought things were going good for the two of you, my advice is leave that situation alone because if you get on deeper with him it will be something that you will soon regret.

staying friends more and likly keeps the feelings for him there so u need to keep searchin for that one that puts u at number one