you can never have too many friends... and if he is really a decent guy and you have a good time with him, stay friends. he was honest with you... and ldr are very hard.

Stay friends if you want- but I believe you will allways be a third wheel... Make more friends and perhaps you will find that
someone speical. Never wait for someone to change their mind. You deserve better and should think better of yourself- than
to wait for someone who has moved on...
JMO

boohooohooooooooo.......

sniff....sniffff......

if you like him as more than a friend and he has a new girl and just wants you as a friend, I would move on.

then i would eat turtle eyes

turtle eyes?? lol

This guy did you wrong. Before you can become lovers you have to be friends. Friends respects the other person feelings. If you still like this guy and he is interested in someone else, the best thing to do is to let him go, or he will still disrespect you more.

I have been in love before too and friendship was hard for me to accept, but I got through it. God will help you. Tell this guy how you really feel and that being just a friend hurts just as much as him not being with you. If you become his gargage can, you will always be a gargage can. Tell him you love him, but you do not wish to interfere in his relationship, because you would want the same.

read your post.he dumped you without so much as a how do you do for the first woman to catch his interest.I would say no thanks and move on .

I agree with Benita to a point. But long distance is hard and sometimes there is someone more accessible and it's easier for people. I'm not saying what he did is right-it's not. But some people just aren't emotionally strong enough for long distance. Good luck-you never know when you'll find the right one. So dry your tears so you can see it coming! We're all rooting for you!

u r torturing yourself and you like it. keep wringing that crying towel, and feel the pain, as you twist it. cry boo hoo, scream and yell. will it do any good? only u know your pain level?!!??!!

you liked the guy, he liked u, and found someone else, and you still want to be friends because you still like the dude? should u stay friends? when, he announces his engagement to this new filly, will u go to the wedding?

hi duffy

Let him go! If you accept being his second he will hold on 2 you tight just incase his other women doesn't work out. Then before you know it he will have you were he wants you and then another women will come along.

Yes u have given good advice. Thank you all !!! He is such a nervous wreck ,no wonder he cant keep girlfriends. lol

let him go?? I'll just string him along................lol give him his own medicine. What do u think? I am open minded.

ALL MEN WANT IS SEX...OOOPS DID I SAU THAT OUT LOUD??

He wants to be friends, and you want more. You're hoping if you're friends he will change his mind. This won't work. If you can't be his friend without hoping he'll come back to you, forget about it. You will be unhappy.

One other thing, don't meet someone else for the sake of trying to forget him. You may very likely hurt someone that doesn't deserve to be hurt.

Could you repeat that, I couldn't hear you.

Forget about him and move on. If he still wants to be 'friends' then he is just keeping you on the back burner in case it doesn't work out with the new girl.

aawww poor guy...lol.......keeping me on the back burner.