Why is it hard to find true love ?

Like finding anything else...It's always in the last place you look.

True love is of a voluntary nature, so think about this aspect ... Maybe you will get a clue .. Are you ready to fulfill her wishes, to justify her hopes? Is she eager to share her happiness with you in return?

SO TRUE,,,,WHEN TWO PEOPLE START OUT ITS ABOUT ''ME'' ''WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR''

TO PEOPLE LOOKING FOR THE OTHER TO FILL THERE CUP....ITS SO HARD TO FIND

SOMEONE

IT SEEMS TO RISK TO GOING FROM ME TO ''WE''.AND WHEN IT DOES, AFTER A WHILE

COMES THE POWER STRUGGLE WHERE ITS THE WOMAN WANTING TO GET ''ME ''

BACK......BECAUSE THEY FOR THE MOST PART ARE THE GIVERS AND THE MALES ARE THE

TAKERS .......I SEE THE ANSWER AS GETTING TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCES BETWEEN US

AND THE OTHER GENDER.....SO OFTEN WE BELIEVE THEY ARE LIKE US AND THEY ARE

NOT......WE SEE LOVE DIFFERENTLY, WE NEED TO BE LOVED DIFFERENTLY.....BOTTOM

LINE WE NEED TO DO ONTO AS THEY NEED US TO DO ONTO THEM......I HAVE A SPECIAL

PLACE IN MY HEART FOR TWO WOMEN THE THAT I KNOW LOVE ME ''FOR WHO I AM''

WITHOUT CHANGING ANYTHING.....AND THEY WERE NOT MY ''LOVERS'' THEY WERE THE

BEST FRIENDS ANY PERSON COULD POSSIBLY HAVE....I GUESS YOU COULD SAY THATS

''TRUE LOVE''.....

It's not.
It's the easiest thing in the world to find.
Ask any teenager that just barely started puberty and found their first love.

What's hard to find is an adult that hasn't turned "love" into some kind of frankensquatch ideal that couldn't possibly exist.

It's hard to find true love because people get in their own way.

You may learn to give up all the secret KFC recipe "it's about hopes, and dreams, and happiness, and sharing, and altruism, and knowing," crap, but that doesn't mean you can easily find someone else who has too.

I think if it were easy, it would not
keep us occupied for a lifetime.

I say becouse men and women see true love differently ...

Hard to find becouse you have your own idea
of what your true love is ... and you have not found a women with those same principles yet ... this is why it is so hard ...
for men and women ... to agree on a life and future...
together you both feel will make you and her the happiest ...
and you have a profile that says tell you later

YES WE SEE IT DIFFERENTLY,AS MEN AND WOMEN,,,,WE ALL HAVE FILTERS BASED ON OUR

EXPERIENCES AND HOW WE JUDGED THEM AT A TIME WHEN WE WERE NOT PREPARED TO

FULLY

UNDERSTAND.....THE NATURAL CHILD IN US WANTS SO BAD TO LOVE AND BE LOVED AND

THEN THE ADAPTIVE CHILD IN US GETS IN THE WAY.....

If it were easy, any idiot could do it..
Its a screening process....NEXT

Something to think a little more about before you ask this oft repeated question:

if there was a useful, functional answer to why it's so hard, it would have stopped BEING so hard a long time ago.

You are far better off, and will make much better use of your limited time, if you just accept that it IS hard, and focus your efforts on getting on with your life.