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Among many factors that create difficulty in creating affirmative introductions is for women to be very particular in their expectations for a prospective man, and place unrealistic expectations on men. For example, so many women are in denial regarding their own physical appearance and use euphemisms to mask obvious obesity ( one woman claimed that weighing 165 was not obese!) and in similar fashion have an unrealistic expectation for what they seek in a man and can be quite unrealistic in their criteria for a mans introduction.My personal experiences suggest that its easier to reject men and continue seeking others rather than owning the fact that what they seek in a partner is not socially equivalent and that their expectations are unrealistic. This same situation is found in males to with different variables being asserted ( men can deceive about height, weight, income, education, even post false photos of oneself or others to gain an introduction.)Hopefully with honest insight into another men and women can learn to be honest, direct, open and supportive rather than condescending and judgemental....
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Among many factors that create difficulty in creating affirmative introductions is for women to be very particular in their expectations for a prospective man, and place unrealistic expectations on men. For example, so many women are in denial regarding their own physical appearance and use euphemisms to mask obvious obesity ( one woman claimed that weighing 165 was not obese!) and in similar fashion have an unrealistic expectation for what they seek in a man and can be quite unrealistic in their criteria for a mans introduction.My personal experiences suggest that its easier to reject men and continue seeking others rather than owning the fact that what they seek in a partner is not socially equivalent and that their expectations are unrealistic. This same situation is found in males to with different variables being asserted ( men can deceive about height, weight, income, education, even post false photos of oneself or others to gain an introduction.)Hopefully with honest insight into another men and women can learn to be honest, direct, open and supportive rather than condescending and judgemental.... All very true, but it doesn't really answer the question(s) I raised ... Also it's mostly relative to this site (I think?) where there happen to be a lot of not-so-genuine people. I've not come across this on any other (=read Dutch) sites, not to the same extent anyway. As such my questions were also not limited to M2. I wasn't talking about scammers. I was talking about men's seemingly inability or disinterest or discouragement or whatever it is to not feel motivated to make more of an effort, and to learn from their 'mistakes'. And as I stated before, nothing judgemental from my part. I just have an inquisitive mind. I like to understand such things. And thinking and talking about it, could also help others to change their modus operandi. |
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Ladies still wanted or expect men approaches cool and tame cause it always the first impression that last... Simply as when a man approaches by a woman showing butt naked then realizing where she'll be kept or not to keep at all...
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Sometimes, we fellas have trouble communicating with the fairer sex, verbally. We're more visual. 
"Hello. What's your sign"? 
WOMEN ARE COMPLICATED AND MEN ARE SIMPLE S-E-X SIMPLE....BIG RIFF..... |
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