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Topic: what is love?
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Sat 09/24/16 10:38 AM
is love being with your lover or talking with him 24/7 or every time to time? how about your other life? your friends, family? hmm. I guess it is not love. It is possessiveness! It is madness.

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Sat 09/24/16 11:13 AM
I guess it is not love. It is possessiveness! It is madness.



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Sat 09/24/16 11:23 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Sat 09/24/16 11:36 AM

is love being with your lover or talking with him 24/7 or every time to time? how about your other life? your friends, family? hmm. I guess it is not love. It is possessiveness! It is madness.





THERE IS A SELF PERCEIVED SAFE AND COMFORTABLE EMOTIONAL DISTANCE BETWEEN

OURSELVES AND OTHERS, THAT INCLUDES LOVERS. THERE ARE TWO TYPES MOSTLY

CLINGERS AND ISOLATORS ARE THE LABELS GIVEN TO MOST....YOU PUT ONE OF EACH

TOGETHER AND IT CAN BE PURE HELL FOR BOTH TRYING TO KEEP DISTANCE AT A

COMFORTABLE LEVEL.....:heart:....GOOD LUCK ....AND THIS IS REALLY COMMON FOR

ISOLATORS AND CLINGERS TO GET TOGETHER BE CAUSE WE ARE LOOKING FOR WHAT WE

LACK, TO GET FROM OUR MATE....THATS WHY OPPOSITES ARE ATTRACTED TO EACH OTHER

SO MUCH.....SO MANY TIMES ONE PERSON EXPECTS THE OTHER TO FILL THEM UP AND OR

COMPLETE THEM..NOBODY CAN DO THAT....

tmh1063's photo
Sat 09/24/16 11:58 AM
Another 4 letter word? laugh

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Sat 09/24/16 12:19 PM
Another 4 letter word? laugh


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Sat 09/24/16 12:19 PM
hahahaha

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Sat 09/24/16 12:36 PM
Edited by PeterHonda on Sat 09/24/16 12:36 PM
I perceived it as part of Māyā

Māyā is also a spiritual concept connoting "that which exists, but is constantly changing and thus is spiritually unreal"

This constant change happens in time and location and is different every time. Different ppl perceive it, well, differently.

After some experience you will know what kind of ppl fit to you. But Love...
just happens or not. Just make sure its bilateral.

RedLenses301's photo
Sat 09/24/16 12:47 PM
How much green you have.

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Sat 09/24/16 01:02 PM
what is love?


Baby don't hurt me....














...don't hurt me...














...no more.....

laugh

TMommy's photo
Sat 09/24/16 02:23 PM
aww man now that is stuck in my head grumble

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Sat 09/24/16 02:26 PM

aww man now that is stuck in my head grumble

I like that song

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Sat 09/24/16 02:49 PM

aww man now that is stuck in my head grumble
Just wanted to share my agony laugh

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Sat 09/24/16 03:13 PM
Yeah, it's funny. Love is a huge sort of concept, and can reach into every part of life.

But ironically, the parts of it that most of us get hooked on early in life (the sex, the companionship, all that physical stuff) can end up being the least part of it, in what's important.


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Sat 09/24/16 03:23 PM
love is not possession,,,,,,She's Out of My Life



very true lyrics


love is consideration, respect, inspiration, and a list of things that do not include possession


at least for me,,,the closest thing to possession about love is when it is in the form of romantic commitment, and then our bodies are each others and noone elses,,,



but otherwise, I think its about blending one life with another without having to feel an obligation to

if I like broadway and I know the other person cant stand it, its more about selfishness to insist they come or for them to insist on coming,,,than it is about love

you want the best for the other person and if you know they had other relationships(Family, friends) before you, I dont think you should demand to always be included in those personal relationships just because they now have one with you,, though I do think they should absolutely include you sometimes

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Sun 09/25/16 03:04 AM


aww man now that is stuck in my head grumble
Just wanted to share my agony laugh

Thank you so much for that, grrrr, I hate that song! grumble rant

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Sun 09/25/16 08:03 AM



aww man now that is stuck in my head grumble
Just wanted to share my agony laugh

Thank you so much for that, grrrr, I hate that song! grumble rant
It's a nerve grater for sure lol

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Sun 09/25/16 09:38 AM

is love being with your lover or talking with him 24/7 or every time to time? how about your other life? your friends, family? hmm. I guess it is not love. It is possessiveness! It is madness.


I agree with you. Possessiveness IS madness and quickly triggers jealousy. Someone who isn't willing to share their lover's time with family, friends and "alone time" has big disappointments coming. We all have a personal life and I don't see why anyone has to sacrifice their personal time to please a possessive partner. If anything, dump that partner and recover freedom of movement.

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Sun 09/25/16 12:16 PM
2dy love is just a game 4 everyon look at girls n boys.. if u think ur bf everything 4 u it's ur wrong think. 1st ur fmly...

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Sun 09/25/16 12:33 PM
Hi

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Sun 09/25/16 12:34 PM
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