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why is it that it is so hard to tell a woman that she is gorgeous without her saying that she isn't or worse that she is ugly?
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We are our own worst critics. If you barely know her then your words do not carry much weight.
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alot of us have low self esteem..but i wouldnt mind U telling me..u r a cutie
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but wayyyyyyyyyyyy too young..sorry, i didnt reaize your age..good luck to ya
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i agree, lol. i know what all my little faults are and it's hard for me to take compliments. lol
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yeah i know its the self confidence thing but i wish it wasn't the case thanks for the replies
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It is because our past boyfriends have treated us like shi* and made us feel ugly. The more @$$ holes a girl has dated, the uglier she feels.
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just remember this... when a lady asks you does this dress make me look fat.... always respond you make that dress look good
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low self esteem....will ALWAYS be a killer
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Also remember women do not want to be valued for their appearance alone. Stating she is beautiful before getting to know her may send the wrong message. The fact that you are talking to her tells her you find her attractive. Save the compliments for later.
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all"s i know is its a win win situation, if you take her to the mall to get new shoes.!!! lol
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Sounds like a date to me seahawks...
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I love shoes!!!
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lol
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*perk* someone say shoes?????!!!!!
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<--- has lost all focus... visions of pumps, wedges, boots and flats are blurring reality.
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lmao, u 2?!
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lmao sorry for teasin like that .!!! lol
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Seahawk, thanks for a break to think about "girly stuff". A nice change from the testosterone world I have been living in.
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because she's modest? you can have self-confidence & still be embarrassed by compliments.
OR maybe she's heard it before & it's lost meaning to her. ..sometimes it's hard to tell if a guy's being sincere when he says/does soemthing nice. Nowadays that usually means he wants something in return. |
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