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Topic: Question for the ladies
Adam_Jaskula's photo
Sun 11/11/07 08:47 AM
why is it that it is so hard to tell a woman that she is gorgeous without her saying that she isn't or worse that she is ugly?

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 11/11/07 08:48 AM
We are our own worst critics. If you barely know her then your words do not carry much weight.

imblessedklp's photo
Sun 11/11/07 08:48 AM
laugh alot of us have low self esteem..but i wouldnt mind U telling me..u r a cutie:tongue:

laugh

imblessedklp's photo
Sun 11/11/07 08:54 AM
laugh laugh but wayyyyyyyyyyyy too young..sorry, i didnt reaize your age..good luck to ya:smile:

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Sun 11/11/07 08:55 AM
i agree, lol. i know what all my little faults are and it's hard for me to take compliments. lol

Adam_Jaskula's photo
Sun 11/11/07 08:59 AM
yeah i know its the self confidence thing but i wish it wasn't the case thanks for the replies:heart:

Flamingblackroze's photo
Sun 11/11/07 09:02 AM
It is because our past boyfriends have treated us like shi* and made us feel ugly. The more @$$ holes a girl has dated, the uglier she feels.

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Sun 11/11/07 09:03 AM
just remember this... when a lady asks you does this dress make me look fat.... always respond you make that dress look good

Puffins1958's photo
Sun 11/11/07 09:06 AM
low self esteem....will ALWAYS be a killer

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 11/11/07 09:13 AM
Also remember women do not want to be valued for their appearance alone. Stating she is beautiful before getting to know her may send the wrong message. The fact that you are talking to her tells her you find her attractive. Save the compliments for later.

seahawks's photo
Sun 11/11/07 09:15 AM
all"s i know is its a win win situation, if you take her to the mall to get new shoes.!!! lol

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Sun 11/11/07 09:16 AM
Sounds like a date to me seahawks...drinker laugh love

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 11/11/07 09:16 AM
I love shoes!!!

seahawks's photo
Sun 11/11/07 09:20 AM
lol

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Sun 11/11/07 09:22 AM
*perk* someone say shoes?????!!!!!

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 11/11/07 09:23 AM
<--- has lost all focus... visions of pumps, wedges, boots and flats are blurring reality.

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Sun 11/11/07 09:25 AM
lmao, u 2?!

seahawks's photo
Sun 11/11/07 09:25 AM
lmao sorry for teasin like that .!!! lol

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 11/11/07 09:32 AM
Seahawk, thanks for a break to think about "girly stuff". A nice change from the testosterone world I have been living in.

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Sun 11/11/07 07:25 PM
because she's modest? you can have self-confidence & still be embarrassed by compliments.

OR maybe she's heard it before & it's lost meaning to her.
..sometimes it's hard to tell if a guy's being sincere when he says/does soemthing nice. Nowadays that usually means he wants something in return.

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