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Topic: I need an answer
Tyhronn's photo
Sat 11/10/07 08:58 PM
if a girl says "I can't see us dating right now, I just want to be friends" should I stick with it and see where it goes if I like her or just roll out

adj4u's photo
Sat 11/10/07 08:59 PM
walk away

maybe speak every couple months


MicheleNC's photo
Sat 11/10/07 08:59 PM
See where it goes. Who can't use a new friend?

As the special person in my life right now said to me when we started talking...."Friends first, then let it breathe."

We started as friend and are so much more now. Enjoying today with him, making plans for tomorrow and seeing what happens.

Hugs, M

grizz11952001's photo
Sat 11/10/07 09:00 PM
leave an go on with life

wouldee's photo
Sat 11/10/07 09:00 PM
roll on hotrod!!!!! glasses

unless you only want friendshipssmokin drinker bigsmile

Nervesgone's photo
Sat 11/10/07 09:00 PM
Hang in there if you like her. She just may need to sort out a few things. Just don't get hooked til you set the hook!!happy

Tyhronn's photo
Sat 11/10/07 09:01 PM
we rushed things too fast at first which I do feel bad but, I don't know never even started out as friends

Tyhronn's photo
Sat 11/10/07 09:03 PM
like we are trying to cut things down like not talking every single day like we were, at first we talked a whole lot and chilled together a whole lot

fortsmithman's photo
Sat 11/10/07 09:06 PM
If she wants to be friends be friends because she may just change her mind.

adj4u's photo
Sat 11/10/07 09:09 PM
like i said

walk away

maybe speak every couple months

keep as acquaintance see what happens

but don't be there all the time

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 11/10/07 09:11 PM
Be friends with her if that is what she wants, but don't get your hopes up. Giving someone else a try is what I would recommend.

no photo
Sat 11/10/07 09:11 PM
Well you should keep the interest but at the same time keep your options open just incase the outcome is what you didnt expect

no photo
Sat 11/10/07 09:12 PM
WALK AWAY! I got a similar thing "im too busy for dating right now" she doesn't have interst find a new girl i did it and am so much happier

beachnsunlvr1's photo
Sat 11/10/07 09:15 PM
I think its her way of saying she lost interest--move on--she will contact you if she changes her mind--but dont wait for her. Sometimes its difficult to be just friends after a relationship----months after it becomes easier to communicate again when you both know that it is just friends.

HangedMan's photo
Sat 11/10/07 09:17 PM
Stick around if you don't mind the friends zone. otherwise see ya!

no photo
Sun 11/11/07 03:50 AM
Nah move on...

aje26's photo
Sun 11/11/07 03:54 AM
Don't be a spare tire. Move on!

Lôôking4U's photo
Sun 11/11/07 04:01 AM
Been there done that ,, usually when you have a relationship that ends with " Let's be friends" , What she means is , I need someone around that will do things for me at my beckon call.

No one can tell you how to handle this , The only one is you. I think you already know what you need to do.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Sun 11/11/07 04:29 AM
Be friends if you want...but move on and look for a new love

LLH5's photo
Sun 11/11/07 04:57 AM
She was honest with you, which is great. Be friends, continue on with life. Whatever happens, happens.

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