As a man...If you are one, have your ever thought of what a woman has to go through on a day to day basis? Let's talk about dating so I can paint the picture you need to see.

Okay think now… You are a woman. You wake up. There are places to be. So you spend hours getting ready. You put on your make up, get the perfect clothing to wear, and the shoes to match with. The occasion is to finally meet the guy you've been fantasizing/dreaming about meeting. You've talked to your girlfriends for hours about who might be at this social event you are preparing for. You mask the occasion about drinking or dancing so you don't have to feel any rejection. No guys talk to you that night. You feel miserably let down. You even make eye contact with guys and you simile at them. Yet they are too scared to approach and talk to you. What could have been even worse was if no one noticed you and even as a woman you did your best to look good. For you as a woman this is a passive rejection. You saw a guy you liked and you slightly made your interest known but he was too scared to escalate the situation further. Or he did not understand what was going on between you and him. This affects your self-esteem and makes you wonder if men have balls or are you ugly.

Going back to being a guy…

All she can do is sit there or walk around waiting for you to approach her. Sure she may look like she's on the phone but she's actually seeing if you'll take the bait and break the ice between you two. What you say:

"She looks busy! She looks too sexy for me! Too many other guys have tried to get her! How will i ever get her? Shes out of my league. Guys like me never get hot girls like her. I need to wait for the pefect moment"

Well with that kind of negative dialog running in your head of course nothing will happen. If you keep waiting...Some other guy more confident then you will come around and get her. Women who get approached by confident men rationalize the experience as fate because only few men can walk up to a total stanger and generate a relationship. There is no perfect moment but only the ones your create now. You have to change your self limiting thoughts and believe in the positive. Changing your thinking with pratice will change your actions.

Wouldn't you act the same if you didn't want to look desperate? She's a woman who has the media on her back twenty-four/seven telling her not to be a "slut" or be "desperate".

This is why she rolls in packs with her girlfriends or plays hard to get. This is why she proclaims she wants sex after she's married even through she probably craves it now like a crack fiend. She wants it just as much as you do if not even more. Don't let the act fool you. Women live double lives. She lives one for the social standards policed to her and the other for her real desires which occur now.

So Gentlemen please do the favor of approaching that beautiful woman you've been fantasizing about because I'm sure she's anxious to experience something fun instead of her usual boring routine filled life.

Take a chance with her and see where it takes you…You never know when and where you might find love…or perhaps lust…

ok......wow.......didnt you post this exact same thing a few months ago????

Good advice though....

Yep! in Sept.His first post..
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Topic: Like a Girl Wed 09/12/07 02:03 AM
As a man...If you are one, have your ever thought of what a woman has to go through on a day to day basis? Let's talk about dating so I can paint the picture you need to see.

This reminds me of one of those "hey girls look at me I'm a sweetheart" posts but I'm a stupid bastard so I may be wrong.

its ok.....Im amazed I can remember my own name sometimes!!! But it was a good post and errrrrrrrm 3 post!!

i don't need any advice on how to get women,i've got one simple pick up line that "usually"works...


"get in the car and don't say a word!"

Jtevans now I know why you are here?
NOBODY got in YOUR car...

good luck to you man.

Learn how to dance.. and leave the car at home.

JT....so she gets in your car and doesn't say a word...You think she's gorgeous.... and you don't find out until you're getting to the nitty-gritty that she's a man!

id encourage beautiful women to approach guys

as ive said b4 if women lowered their standards to the same levels guys have for them then the world would b a better place

Cheers for Texasrose. Thats gotta be why he's here. Face it JT, you DO need advice! Lol!!

im just too sweet

lizardking, if we lower our standards to the same level as guys, we'd all be pigs rutting all the time!! I do not intend to lower my standards. There are better men than you out here! FOS!

tldr

wonder if there are any bi women here?
A bi woman is the best mate for a man
I'd like to have a relationship with a bi woman.