There is really no point to sex unless you want to have a kid. Yes of course there is a thing called "pleasure" that we get from having it but that feeling is short term so if it's short term I don't see the point of getting intimate. I never had sex and honestly don't want to. Sure I'm attracted to certain females but I would rather be intellectually connected with her. Sure we will be very attracted to one another but I don't want to have sex. I want a female friend.

Its the smartest thing I have heard. The more you become friends with someone, without sex, the more you get to know that person... You make a lot more intelligent decisions that way.

really the only point is physical gratification , which you can get other ways,, so bravo OP for not being a slave to lust

and save the world from a another like minded imbecile

Besides I don't find his comment that weird, I've had sex and I will never do it again. There are people out there that don't find sex that enjoyable and it wouldn't surprise me if most of those are women.

Good. Kindly go and castrate yourself, immeditately.
Thank you.

Edited for off-topic.
Kindly address the topic and not the member.

soufie
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That is so refreshing..that is exactly what
I think, why can't men and women be friends?

A feeling that you get when you want that
person to be your friend.

Both of you know when you click.

Its kinda tough for a man and woman to be friends, without sex being involved....been there done that...never worked for me...just saying...

A lot more goes on in the brain and body, before, during, and after sex, than triggering the pleasure centers.

Pleasure is the teaspoon of honey to the cup of medicine.


With the natural bonding process that takes place with sex this should be amended to something more like "there is really no point to monogamy, commitment to one person, sex with one person, unless you want a kid."

It would be even more relevant to say something like "assuming you are biologically 'normal' and capable of reproduction, there is really no point to opposite sex social relationships unless you want kids."

No point in having sex ever...?..
..ummm.that's just crazy talk..
Lol..no.point.....ohhh I can think of a lot
of good points ...to having sex..

OP, I understand what you are getting at. But let me give you my take on it from experience. I've been with several women in my life. Each one I thought I loved. That includes my X wife. But as I've gotten older, I've learned a few things. Sex is a good thing. But only when you have it with someone you get that gets you. What I'm trying to say is, Right now I'm with a woman that I've known for two years. We are each other's best friend.

This I have to admit is a first for me. I've never felt this way about a woman before. Yes, we have sex. But it's different from any other relationship I've ever had. You may not always feel the way you do right now. If you are ever lucky enough to meet that woman that becomes your best friend, that feeling of no sex ever, may change. If you ever find that one that you feel that close to, well, you get it.

I didn't realize what I had missed all these years until I met this one. Yes, we enjoy each other. But if something was to happen and the sex stopped. And it never restarted, I would be OK. Because I have something with this woman that I've never had before. As long as I've got my best friend, I've got it all.

..awww that's really touching..
Sincerely..

Umm.but no sex... I don't know man!..
I get what you're saying but still...no.sex.....hmmm.... like ever?..
How about.... oral..... according to a former president.. oral doesn't count as sex..lol

I understand you, OP. Although I myself ask 'what's the point in having a woman in my life' ? Sex without respect or trust is pointless and means nothing, it's just sex.
Respect towards men doesn't run deep in women, I'd say it dead, and trust is an even rarer beast.
You not wanting to have sex is perfectly normal, especially in this Women VS Men environment where men are automatically wrong and guilty simply for having a hanging appendage. I'm not surprised so many have chosen the gay route or, like me, haven forsaken the company of women altogether.
Keep your head high, Derrick - no pun intended - and know you are neither alone nor wired in your point of view.
I myself congratulate you. When women wake up and find out all the "good guys" have chosen our kind of alternatives then maybe they'll start toning down the Men-Bashing... I have a feeling it's already too late tho. Men are shunning relationshits like never before and I see the trend growing all over the world.

The fact that you felt the need to post this publicly, means that there's another shoe to drop.

Something about your personal decision bothers you. Otherwise, you would quietly go about your life, and no one would notice your choice.

So what's the problem?

No sex? Pffffttt
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There's no point in talking about conditional sex.

I believe there to be just sex and then thers great sex lol sex i can go without but great sex everyone needs at least once ...a week lol

Love to be always intimate with my partner. No day will be complete without it.

Sex is not everything. Its the only thing....seriously, every relationships needs the sex part......its the bond that could potentially hold you together....just saying..