did any one here watch the shows Avrage Joe? Well this site reminds me of that, you have the so called studs and avrage. If you dont fall in the stud department the girls here shoot you down Why? Whats wrong with being just a normal guy? This is for all the normal guys here including myself that just want to be Normal and work hard play hard and dont care about the movie star look...

Joe....not every woman on here is looking for a "stud". If you look at the couples on here, you will see that there are a whole bunch of us average people who found our matches. And that makes the other person a "stud" or a "babe" in our eyes. Self-confidence is so much more sexy than hot looks, because looks fade....Give the "average" girl a chance and you just might find the one of your dreams.

i think you're underestimating yourself...and well i guess it's their loss...i've never shot you down...or you wouldn't have gotten back up..

ewww @ studs

this ain't no breeding place..

well..i guess there might be some that think so..but i know a few 100 ppl that don't...

"Stud" and "average" are in the eye of the beholder. And not everyone is for everyone else. Hang in there, you'll find someone special, either here or somewhere else. And, to echo Eileena9, confidence is key. You don't have to be the best looking, the smartest, the most outgoing, you just have to know who you are and what you're about and what you're looking for in a relationship. When you've got that going on, you've got it all.

Your statements are true for some of the gals but not all.

Personally I am open to various levels of attraction... but the main thing for me is the persons physical health and if they take care of themselves, eat right, exercise.... I find that most women I've met don't do that so..... that's where my start is with a person.

the way i look at it is people dont like you for who you are then theyre not the one for you,alot of times people put their values in the wrong place any ways i dont worry what people think..because most of the time their wrong..one day you will find someone that values you for who you are until then quit worrying and have some fun.. ...love will find you when you least expect it youll get married have some kids work yourself to death and wish you were single ..thus the cycle of life...

well I was married and do have kids and I do work myself to death like 70-80 hour weeks...lol

lmao @ tomb

thus the cycle of life lol

joe, i am not looking for a guy that looks like a movie star, that's for dang sure..as far as looks go, i consider myself to be about average as well. it's kinda sad that people automatically write someone off just because they aren't one of the beautiful people. don't let it get to you though...there are good people out there who will appreciate it you for who you are, not what you look like
Becca

Ive had the movie star guys....I like it when they dont talk....yes.....just sit there and look pretty@@!!!

Im looking for compatibility....whether that be in a pretty package or not!

but its true looks get you every where in life

Not really there Joe, I know of some very beautiful women who are miserable because they are rotten people. And I don't consider myself stunning but I have everything I need and I wouldn't trade it for anything!!

well i never really thought of myself as a stud b4

thanks joe cause if yer right

i must be studdly do right

Nope, looks really don't get you anywhere if you have nothing to back them up. I don't consider myself to be exceptional looking but what I do have to offer more than makes up for that, I think anyway. And since I've never lacked for friends, boyfriends, job opportunities, etc., I think it's working for me. What does matter is having a heart and soul and brain.

Aw cmon joe you know you get further with intellegence than looks. Quit banging out these threads man. If you don't like what's available at this FREE site you know your options. You've been looking around in here for awhile and know what to expect my freind. No reason for the bitterness. Good things come to those that wait. Patience has its virtues. And attitude is like tobasco sauce - a little goes a long ways. Cheer up my freind. Don't portray yourself as bitter and desperate because I know and you know you are not. Peace. Biker.

My opinion -- if I may be candid -- is that you're your own worst enemy. Every post I have seen of yours is veiled in language that says "Why doesn't anybody like me?" Go in feeling badly about yourself and people can sense it. They think, "Hey, this guy has a really poor impression of himself, maybe he knows something I don't."

You get a reputation on a site like this, and I think people are much more likely to say "Oh look, here's a new post by that guy who always makes me laugh, I have to look at this one" or "Here's one I should check out, it's from that girl who always says something that makes me think" than they are to say "Hey, here's another one from that guy who's always negative and complaining! This should be interesting!"

There's more to you than being resentful that you're "shot down" while the studs have their fun. You really ought to try showing that part of yourself.


I know there are several here whose posts I just never bother with anymore because their first 1000 or so were "Why doesn't anyone like me?" (to which I believe they have answered their own question!) or some sort of incoherent rambling whine.

I'm not saying there's never a time to raise issues or to complain. But if that's ALL you do, people start getting tired of it and will tune you out pretty quickly.

thanks longhairbiker, your a good man..No Im not desperate I just wish people would be more outgoing and less shallow...Some people not the whole site.

okay...thoughts to ponder.....no offense intended just something observed right here in this thread.......

Joe, you had six lovely ladies comment to you and you have chosen to respond only to LHB and tomb....both of whom are men...if you don't want to listen to a woman's opinion......why ask about women?





Lex......stalk!!!

Eileena, you crack me up, I would of never caught that...