sorry, but i have to agree with lex. and self confidence is very sexy. a guy that has only average looks as you say, can become much better looking when combined with a great personality. and joe, i have talked with you numerous times on here and yet you never pursued. im sorry, but you are making things worse for yourself and you dont have to.

eileena is not just a pretty face

she got more than looks

Nice catch Eileen!

And you're right, adj4u, Eileen's got it going on!

Know whats funny about all this is this thread wasnt even about just me, I read another about a guy thats not having much luck either and mine said for those that are having this problem not poor me...Some thing to think about..

Beauty is only skin deep my friend!! Looks fade with age..BUT beauty from within can grow. If you are thinking you are an AVERAGE JOE then you have to outshine other people. Stop being down on yourself..that is not attractive at all.
Keep your head held high...confidence is so sexy. If you have confidence in yourself, people do take notice and trust me..they like that!! The first person that has to like you is YOU!! If you don't like yourself...no one else will either. So if I may suggest to you...like yourself and you will be surprised how many more people will see the beauty shine from within you!!!
Good luck and keep the chin up

Winnie you know Im all ways playing around with you, your more then cool in my book..Im not sure what I missed that Im suppose to have pursued...Any way I have confidence but for me and every other guy that are trying to make it here knows that theres only so much confidence to go on then you have to wonder what your doing wrong..

actually joe....I was out the other day, and I seen a guy with perfect hair, body etc...and then I thought to myself...I wonder long it takes him to get ready in the morning??? It turned me off completely......I wanna be the pretty one in the equation!!!

Joe, you're probably doing nothing wrong, just haven't found the right one(s) yet Just keep being you and it'll happen.

And I'm with Gypsy, I don't think I want to go out with someone prettier than me or who takes longer to get ready to go out than I do