Some women can be subconsciously in love with a man & will do nothing about it.
Even if they could be with that person happily.
It can be to such a level that they can even see the man they in love with, get married to another woman & even end up as a bridesmaid or close friend & convincingly say ''I'm so happy for you both'' meanwhile deep down she's in love with the man & at the same time be dating someone else & even marrying someone else.

Why is it so??

Moral - women pull up your socks & be straight

"Topic: Women"

That's a broad topic.

A very complicated topic too

got a hole full of love......

Here is everything that I understand about the topic:

Transference?

I mean

"Love" is a natural process.
You spend a lot of time with someone, your body thinks you've chosen them to mate with, it pushes emotional bonding, it builds emotional associations to keep you around someone so you bang and have babies.

You have sex with someone, that is the next step in the process, builds on the previously developed emotional attachment and associations.

So build emotional romantic attachment, delude yourself and call it "just friends," bang some other guy which builds upon the "just friends" bonding, then simply transfer them all to the first guy you said was "just friends."

You "love" one guy, while married and banging another.

Similar to why a lot of guys right after they separate or get divorced end up dating and remarrying the first ugly chick that has sex with/dates him.


How is that the moral?
Especially when you say "women can be subconsciously in love with a man"
You do know "subconscious" means they aren't really aware of it?

So you're saying "pull up socks you don't know exist, and be straight about something you don't realize and for the most part work to consciously deny."

That's a godly feat more than a moral.

A woman has the power to bring the strongest & most dominant man...to his knees....the power of the female species is indefinite

for me,, 'in love' is fleeting, and if someone is already committed to someone they are 'in love' with,, they are just off bounds,, period.

there are plenty of other men to fall 'in love' with

Just becuse you are passionately in love with someone , and they reciprocate those feelings in full, it doesnt mean that they are a suitable life partner for you.

There is more to a long-term relationship than just feelings

.. I called those women my fan club..
My personal little stockers...lol..
It's good to have fans...wink

Hmmm

But i thought Love conquers all

Some women can be subconsciously in love with a man & will do nothing about it.
Even if they could be with that person happily.



there are things I may admire from a distance


wit
intelligent remark


but that is more a smile of admiration

Maybe a woman has the power to bring a man to his knees, but that still only works if he's interested in her. If he's already under the spell of another woman ...

Also ... not every woman is empowered and is able to do such a thing. I think few women are. A lot of women use masculine energy to achieve that, which often doesn't work long term.
Being pure, comfortable and confident in your femininity is what it takes, and most women are sort of stuck in masculine energy and not comfy at all in a more feminine role. It means you have to dare to be vulnerable, which requires inner strength. That's where it goes wrong for many.

Now that I'm 50 I find that I'm much better at it. When younger I was shy, very insecure, low self-esteem etc. No way did I dare approach a nice man I was interested in.

Because there are some women who are just waiting for the man to show his real interest or love, you may call it old fashioned way but you can't blame a woman who wants security, knowing that the man she will choose to love feels the same way about her, someone she can rely on and wholly devoted to her. If a man is truly interested or in love with the girl, it is only right that the man should take the lead and not let a woman chase after him. A woman will surely reciprocate the feelings sincerely showed to her but she can also manage to just keep it in her heart knowing that the man is not really into her. Sad but true, sometimes we can't have what we want all the time, and we end up with someone else. But for sure a woman can learn to love someone who makes an effort to love her and make her love him back.

Perseverance and purity of intention works best in winning a heart.

hi
you are so sweet and lovable
u can contact me

SO TRUE ,,,FOR A LOT OF WOMEN....ITS SO IMPORTANT THAT WE GET KNOW OURSELVES,

AND ALSO UNDERSTAND HOW THE OTHER SEX THINKS AND FEELS....

I don't understand the topic.