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so you've been single for a while, but you've met someone... dated a while, ... now you've decided to move in together... your place.
You've got your stuff all over the place, right? where do you put their stuff? How adaptable are you to re-arranging your furniture, your wall decorations, etc., so that the other person can feel like its their space as well..? Is it garage sale time? just asking..doesn't relate to me.. |
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Not really a problem here .
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If I get to that point of wanting someone to move in with me... I could adapt and make room for them and their stuff... being in a relationship is all about give and take... If both of us weren't ready to do that then we wouldn't be moving in together...
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The post is about cooking a hare before catching it.
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Hummm myself in the past I have emptied a closet for them and dresser drawers for their stuff... As far as what is in the house or decorations it all depends if their stuff is better then mine I have no problem moving mine to the shed and use theirs.. If not then they can put their stuff in the shed..
One never knows how long it will last so not getting rid of any of my stuff nor do I expect them to get rid of theirs... And yes I have a big shed.... |
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so I know someone and this was a real issue
she got married for first time when she was 40 that is a lot of years of being independent had her own house her own things where she wanted them got married moved the husband in and I don't think she was prepared for the fact that along with him...came all his stuff big time arguments about what went where |
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As long as I get to keep my side of the bed put your stuff wherever you want..lol..
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Wow good post. I think older people might have a problem with this. I mean think about it.. you get your place the way you want. Now it's change up time... hmmm you've given me food for thought..
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Ps.. as long as we both agree the remote control is mine.... we're all good..lol
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Ps.. as long as we both agree the remote control is mine.... we're all good..lol Don't forget the old recliner in front of the big screen... Then you are all set. |
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Hmmm. I always understood that all the guy's crap, no matter who is moving in, goes into either the garbage, donation bin, or the garage.
You mean, I could have kept some of my stuff inside. Damn! They should teach this in school. Who really cares about conjugating a verb. |
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