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Yup, it's a sticky situation. Add, hang in there. Well, its not a sticky situation ...yet...But it does get harder each day to, pass up on opportunities being sent my way...Yup, I am going to hang in there as long as I can....something's gotta give huh!!! so, she's giving you opportunities and signals? sounds like maybe she wants a FWB .. 
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Yup, it's a sticky situation. Add, hang in there. Well, its not a sticky situation ...yet...But it does get harder each day to, pass up on opportunities being sent my way...Yup, I am going to hang in there as long as I can....something's gotta give huh!!! so, she's giving you opportunities and signals? sounds like maybe she wants a FWB ..
ADD pass up a FWB??? Things that make ya go Hummmmm... |
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Whose code is better and why?
What exactly are the codes? couple breaks up. The gal sasheys up the the exes buddy and says we should go out.
Why is girl code, hmmm, this is ok? Who says it's okay? Who says that girl isn't the anomaly and most girls wouldn't "sasheys" up to the ex's buddy? Is guy code, wrong?
There is no guy code, really. Things like "don't bang your friend's ex" most likely stem from atavistic, natural, DNA, Darwin driven innate compulsions to avoid women that pose a danger to passing on your DNA. The more promiscuous the woman, the less security that any kids that are created come from you. I mean the head of the penis is shaped the way it is in order to create suction like a plunger during thrusting to remove any previous male sperm. ...It's not "guy code," it's basic survival. "Avoid promiscuous women or there's an increased chance of raising another dudes kid," whereas falsely labeled "girl code" is just "get pregnant, any available dude is okay but find the best one, dudes that have friends are great because they have a preformed group, and group=survival=village to raise the child, other women are competition and suck." So Whose code is better and why?
it's poor thinking to compare the two in order to arrive to the desired conclusion. |
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Yup, it's a sticky situation. Add, hang in there. Well, its not a sticky situation ...yet...But it does get harder each day to, pass up on opportunities being sent my way...Yup, I am going to hang in there as long as I can....something's gotta give huh!!! so, she's giving you opportunities and signals? sounds like maybe she wants a FWB ..
ADD pass up a FWB??? Things that make ya go Hummmmm... Well, I consulted with the only gal I knew re: FWB, and since we were in two different situations altogether, and because of my particular dilemma , I had to pass on the FWB ....yeah I know....but my buddy's ex is open to it and she is still considering it......but, now I am thinking about that code...bros before......ha ha.....dang, I am an idiot......!!! |
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soufiehere: "My Cracker Jacks did not come with a decoder ring!"
soufie, I will loan you mine. 
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I have yet to have experienced either genders members giving even the appearance of following any code.
I keep hearing rumors of it, but so far, it only gets mentioned either when someone is declaring why they don't have to follow it, or someone is trying to get their way by getting someone ELSE to follow it. |
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Female says -
No - Means YES but it must be noted she said No. Maybe - Means YES but it will cost you later. Yes - Means a trap is being set. Warning! Back away. Male says - No - Means NO Maybe - Means Maybe Yes - Means Yes |
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Whose code is better and why?
What exactly are the codes? couple breaks up. The gal sasheys up the the exes buddy and says we should go out.
Why is girl code, hmmm, this is ok? Who says it's okay? Who says that girl isn't the anomaly and most girls wouldn't "sasheys" up to the ex's buddy? Is guy code, wrong?
There is no guy code, really. Things like "don't bang your friend's ex" most likely stem from atavistic, natural, DNA, Darwin driven innate compulsions to avoid women that pose a danger to passing on your DNA. The more promiscuous the woman, the less security that any kids that are created come from you. I mean the head of the penis is shaped the way it is in order to create suction like a plunger during thrusting to remove any previous male sperm. ...It's not "guy code," it's basic survival. "Avoid promiscuous women or there's an increased chance of raising another dudes kid," whereas falsely labeled "girl code" is just "get pregnant, any available dude is okay but find the best one, dudes that have friends are great because they have a preformed group, and group=survival=village to raise the child, other women are competition and suck." So Whose code is better and why?
it's poor thinking to compare the two in order to arrive to the desired conclusion. Well,,, that is an opinion... |
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Female says - No - Means YES but it must be noted she said No. Maybe - Means YES but it will cost you later. Yes - Means a trap is being set. Warning! Back away. Male says - No - Means NO Maybe - Means Maybe Yes - Means Yes Rusty Kitty and the guys get it! Codes... they cool be the downfall.... if the human race. |
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All these various views and opinions, and I am not further ahead....mann!!
Anyway, I realize I have to follow my own personal code, to move on ahead of the relationship.....so let me go find the code to live and die by..... |
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Would not go out with someone a close girlfriend of mine had dated. I would never wish to hurt my friends in any way. She is my sister of choice not my sister of birth.
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Personally I don't like the battle of the sexes, but what the hell.. Whose code is better and why? da Vinci's Code 
code? today? have you SEEN what the millennials are doing today? it's like they took all the codes and tossed'em out the window! 
anywho.. no battled here.. I made my own 
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We all have our own code to live within..
peace & love.. |
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Surely, this code has an expiry date, if not what kinda time frame are we looking at???
Personally, if my buddy dated her 10 years ago and has no interest left in her, due to the new love in his life, I would think her status just moved to "single" and available..huh!! |
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The only code that matters
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Surely, this code has an expiry date, if not what kinda time frame are we looking at??? Personally, if my buddy dated her 10 years ago and has no interest left in her, due to the new love in his life, I would think her status just moved to "single" and available..huh!! definitley! jump |
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Since this boat is sinking, lets give an example. Two guys are buds. One guy has a girfriend. The other guy is happy for his friend. Time passes, the couple breaks up. The gal sasheys up the the exes buddy and says we should go out. Guy code is bro's before shmoes! And he tells her to look for another monkey. Why is girl code, hmmm, this is ok? Is guy code, wrong?? I have my code and .. . In this situation so not going to touch it. If one of my female friends EX'S hot on me it would be thanks but most thanks. Not interested... |
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not too long ago I am in the dentist chair and hygienist is talking to me
asks me what I do and I said I was a tutor during the day taking classes at night for my Master's in Counseling well as soon as I said that her eyes light up and she starts telling me her life story what an SOB her ex was and how she finally divorced him and thank God for Uncle Benny..he was always there for her and the kids... yadayaaydaa..this was her husband's best friend mind ya so after a year or so he asks her out she agrees another year passes they get married now she wants to know why her kids are mad now that Benny has gone from'Uncle' to Daddy |
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Surely, this code has an expiry date, if not what kinda time frame are we looking at??? Personally, if my buddy dated her 10 years ago and has no interest left in her, due to the new love in his life, I would think her status just moved to "single" and available..huh!! definitley! jump I think I may do just that...jump her..you said...or jump at the opp....anyway, have to give it a twirl.....sooner rather than later....YOLO... |
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