The worse feeling in the world is knowing you did the best you could and it still wasn't good enough :( :( But I believe that If God often remove someone in our life, for sure theirs a reason behind it and he's preparing much better and deserve for our love..In time..I know, that someone will come into my life.I have the red string of faith..If were really meant to be then the time will come maybe not now,,but it will come, I can feel it :)

Have a Nice Day!! Thanks for reading my post..

Best Regards,
Marsha

Hi Marsha -

It's not that it wasn't enough. It could be that sometimes people don't know what they want. So don't take that on yourself. You seem like a wonderful person, and your picture is very beautiful. It's his loss.

There are also times when people realize they blew it. When people realize they lost something good, when they lost a true love. Sometimes they may realize too late.

I try to remember that if someone doesn't want to be in your life, they were not suppose to be. God didn't mean them to be. Some people are in your life for only a season. Some people are in your life for the long haul.

I was once where you are now. I fell so deeply in love, and the man just didn't spend the time together much. He didn't spend the kinds of time together required to hold a good relationship together. So the relationship died of attrition; and I realized I had to move on, no matter how much I wanted it to work. In the long run, it was best to move on, and move on with my life.

If I would have continued to hold on, then I would not be free for opportunity to date and meet someone who would be a good or better match for me, and turn into a good, flourishing relationship.

You're doing good in thinking positive. God has better for us. Someone who will love us as Christ loves the church. Keep your focus on God.

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Hi Marsha, a heart break is very painful. Am in the process of healing. One thing is for sure.......we should never allow the disappointment and pain sow seeds of bitterness in our heart. The key to our heart is exclusively in our custody. If we choose to allow anyone or anything access, then we should positively take responsibility for the consequences thereof. It is about us, not the other person. I like your attitude to the heart break. That makes two of us!

There is more to life...... Remember, nothing happens behind God's back. He has good plans for us. If it did not work, then it was not meant to be. There is a better plan in the pipeline. God will reveal it at the right time. Keep well gal, keep the faith.

God bless you!

Thank You So Much Guys..Your words really help..Yeah..Im still in the healing process but one thing that I'm sure of, that I can survive and move on to the next journey of my life. It's really painful but I really need to undergo all these process cause I know in the other side of the tunnel theirs a light or a new life waits me...Thank You So Much!!! Life Must Go On..God Bless Us All..

So sorry to hear that your heart was broken. They went out from us, but they did not belong to us. For if they had belonged to us, they would have remained with us. But their departure made it clear that none of them belonged to us - 1 John 2:19. Some people come for a reason, some come for a season, and some for a lifetime. We have to seek God's guidance on who is there for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. You have the right optimistic mentality, though. Keep the faith for the revelation of what you are believing is for an appointed time. Though it lingers, wait for it for it will surely come and will not delay - Habakkuk 2:3.

I just read your other post. I remember reading a book about unforgiveable sins. I think everyone has one and it is the demise of some relationships. Anyway, the book describes forgiveness in a 4 step process. I think grieving follows the same process.

1) Denial
2) More commonly for men - Anger, more commonly for women - Hurt
3) More commonly for men - Hurt, more commonly for women - Anger
4) Acceptance

The book points out that even God has an unforgiveable sin. The book also stated that from the time that Adam and Eve were kicked out of the Garden of Eden until the time of the cross, was God's 4 step process. Sometimes healing and moving on can take a while. It all depends on how traumatic the event. Trauma just means that something happened that you weren't prepared or equipped to handle.

Not saying that the book is the Gospel or the end-all-be-all, but it shed light on some things for me.

Have a blessed one.

When there is no hope there is no life , you must always have hope .
That's the best thing I can tell you
And I hope that you forget about it all very soon and that one day you find the right one for you that loves for who you are ^_^

hai