I hate tying my own shoes... jkd! Whoa, put the guns down!

Being alone is not bad after all....there are great things that could happen in that "me time"...you'll get to know more of yourself, talk more to God, set your goals and plans in life, and reflecting on other stuff that matter to you...but being in this "me time" for too long wouldn't be healthy for you and all your relationships.....so before you miss some morale boosting cheers from friends and family, better get out from your slumber and enjoy life with the people you loved most...
After all, no man is an island....
Hehe

I'm cooming baby don't worry Haha

I guess I'm a weirdo, because I like being alone. Sure I like going out, dating, relationships and all that comes with that. However, when it comes to actually living with someone or sleeping in the same bed with them all night, count me out. I've had it both ways, married and single.I love my alone time!

Exactly more "me time" is great! Time to accomplish all my goals.

Oh wait a minute,



Darn(PG13 word for M2)!!! I'm unhealthy..... Oh well...... At what point do you cross over from unhealthy to perv? I think I might be getting close to that border.

I like my 'me' time.. I've been alone for a lot of years and the only thing I find lacking at times.. is shared, intimate, laughter!

yeah.. I like the fact I don't have to worry about rushing home after an outing or grocery run cuz of imposed time constraints.. or being told what to cook, or when.. OR being constantly yelled at and told to redo something because it wasn't done right (my ex was an angry control freak!)

growing up I spent a lot of time with mom, where I learned all the 'house' things.. like cleaning, cooking, baking.. etc.. and more time with dad, where I learned how to build and fix things in and around the house.. so I've always been very handy and independent, and pretty much left on my own to figure things out.. I was also taught that you have to be your own best friend before you can be a good one to anyone else.. and after 20+ years being a single full-time mom, I'm enjoying my own company, and don't NEED to be with others if I choose not to

right now? NOT seeing any real downsides to being alone either!

that said.. if I found THE perfect guy for me tomorrow? the okay being alone part could obviously change..

Sleeping alone, not being poked in the middle of the night, no cuddles. That's just what i hate most.

People bothering me.

so I've always been very handy and independent, and pretty much left on my own to figure things out.. I was also taught that you have to be your own best friend before you can be a good one to anyone else.. and after 20+ years being a single full-time mom, I'm enjoying my own company, and don't NEED to be with others if I choose not to



Yeah, right! Making oneself whole and a lot more ready to share oneself to the people around....

not really.. I've shared myself for as far back and as long as I can remember.. I'm simply enjoying my current peace'n quiet, and autonomy

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I miss the discovery moment when you read something or hear something in a musical track that blows you away. Turning and wanting to share an OMG moment that can't be translated into text or phone call.

Or catching a look on someone's face when you are busy and didn't realize that the view was appreciated.

Really the sharing moments of life.Sharing the beauty and uniqueness of life. Filling the God shaped hole.

All the other stuff are occupations-cooking, cleaning, and so on.

Can't really confess to "hating" anything about solitude or being alone...;}

I never thought about it ... so personal ...
but when I don't feel good ... I would like someone to just hold me ... and tell me all will feel better soon ... I have a very hard time
being ill and being alone ... but I have had some really bad experiences with someone ...who did not care so much about me ...so I might be use to feeling alone anyway...by now ... so I am ok ... but still miss sharing and caring... true emotions like that ... with someone ...

I miss the weight of a man. I am not even talking sexual.
I like my alone time,was married for almost 16 yrs... yes- sometimes I do get lonely, yet I'm comfortable alone.

I agree with a few on here; who said "whenever they needed someone noone was there for them"; I can relate, and I too ended up the majority of the time doing it myself.

I think though for me that as fine as I am with being alone; I'd still like to have a friend.
A male friend, but I'm not so sure about the benefits parts.

I have yet to do the "short term relationship" bit, and it doesn't seem appealing to me... who knows, maybe one day.
For now I'm enjoying this alone time.

Ok can we chat

Besides not having anyone to laugh with, the part of no sex partner is already a tragedy! But drinking alone, in the sunset...traumatic! I just not like to be alone, period, so when I am not in a relationship then I invite my neighbors or a friend from work for dinner and drink and perhaps sex if possible.

.so. basically you invite them over for dinner and a show .lol..jk

out from 7 long years of abusive marriage in the past 10 yrs.
ive learned to embrace my very own company.
and enjoyed my full independence.

however,in spite and despite of what I have went through in my personal affair.
I don't see myself growing old all alone.

darn! I missed intimate dining out,held hands everywhere and anywhere.the cuddles,the snuggles,tight embraces,those long kisses and oh yes,...sex!
haven't had it since......
it feels great doing it to someone you love and who loves you back.


and oh yes,i have deep aversion into scrubbing toilet bowl.phew!

and yes again,I hate sleeping alone.
I hate traveling alone....
simply just being alone is sucks!

kinda yes...nothing wrong with having fun ...better than been alone lol