Is it me or Does she look 13?

it's not just maturity that matters though, say a 25 yr old gets with a 37 year old women, they may get along great...but what happens in 10 years when that 25yr old want to start a family at 35?...his SO will be 47, and the chances of her having a healthy child are significantly lower then if he was with a 35 yr old....it's issues like these that make age matter, it my not have been an issue at the start but what one person is seeking changes over time, it is not just a number it has real world applications

The smell of BenGay is usually a aphrodisiac among teens.

You probably look 50 to her

I'm not saying to do anything that's uncomfortable to you and don't let people convince you either way. I'm giving my honest opinion to the question asked.

An example is my ex husband. He moved to Canada at age 5 from Europe. By age 10 he was looking after his mother and sister because of his mother's mental illness and her inability to speak English.At this age he was paying her bills and buying the groceries.
By age 13 he started working in his Aunts Hotel and continued to work through his teens. There's more of what he went through but believe me, he was very mature and took responsibility very seriously when he should have been having fun.
Everything he learned on his own without a father..a father figure or mentor.
Most men I've known my age don't have a freagin clue.
They still chasing skirts, can't hold on to a job and still think it's cute and funny to make perverted jokes to and about women.

Yah that's real mature at our age pffft!

who cares in ten years. I live in the moment. What happens in the future is not my worry in the present. And besides...any relationship can have problems in the future and any woman may not be able to have children and any man could be sterile. That's when maturity comes in....you work these problems out together.

I love those 60 year old hotties. I always bring the condoms and Ensure.....cause I'm a gentleman.

Age doesn't matter as long as u love the person. 10years as age gap I would love it

I've been looking on the 10ys +/- but may reconsider...more So on the + side .

It's though out there !

Waddaya mean "I" look 50 to her..."We" look 50 to her.
Honestly, ok 10 year age gap,ok. But that is the max. Anything else (as Rooster pointed out) looks weird. Not just that. But the term gold digger comes out. Which may be why the majority of younger women go for older men. Forgetting that the guys have kids and they will be leaving money to their kin. These gold diggers just want to horn in on their cut of property, money and whatever they can take before they move on to the next grey haired fool. Imo.

I don't understand why a "friend" would try to set you up with someone that much older than you! Personally, I think that at your age you should be dating men closer to your age. As we get older, age does not matter so much. I've dated men 15 or more years younger than me. But not until I was in my 40's.

Mending sama aku wkek

I think some of what you say is so true, it does matter at times and also depending on the person your with.
My deepest regret would be getting married to someone who did not see a future for us after the wedding, it was a 10 year difference, so in this case, age does matter.
With age differences, you have to be clear at the start of a potential relationship before moving on to commit seriously.

Believe me age has a role to play. You mention love !! When you first enter into a relationship, things seem to get off on the bright side, but looking at the bigger picture, if there is a age gap, then you will soon start to see the differences .
First of all , you need to figure out what is it you want out of a relationship that has a big age gap, then discuss the do's and dont's .

You are one of the fortunate ones with such great experience . My Ex and I was 10 years apart, even though she told me how much she loved me at first, after the wedding, she started to have a change of heart towards our future.
She think she went into this marriage thing too young, should I force her to stay,(NO) I let her make her own decision, that wa when I realise that age DOES matter in some cases .

You bring Ensure? Surely you jest.

Bring wine instead...
you might get lucky then... or not.


Good luck!

Age difference does not count in any form of relation in as long as their hearts are bonded to one common thing. Love is all about sharing hearts and understandings.

I'll try that ..

The Biltmore Estate is not far from me so of the local wine is acceptabul..

I heard that Biltmore Estate makes some really good wines so I think a bottle of 2011 Biltmore Reserve Pinot Noir would be a good choice.

Good luck!