Honestly, I'm not too bad looking, I don't think.
And, I'm pretty kind, I have a good heart, good intentions,
a great education, a nice job, a solid car, and it seems that the only guys that are ever attracted to me, are guys that have no sense of what they want, where they want to go in life, and just guys that just use me for everything I do have. I just don't get why I can't meet a decent guy.

I honestly would rather be happy alone,
over miserable, and in a relationship.

you probably scare the hella out of the other ones...my mom says i do the same thing...oh well mr right will come along and not be frightened away...

maybe the guys who are really interested in you are afraid to approach you. Maybe there is someone who would give their last breath to talk to you but they do not think they can talk to you. Look around you and you just may find them but do not give up.

I found out this week even when you feel at your lowest a dream can come true.

This is my opinion if I knew everything I would have have a special someone that would stand by me.

Respect

Thunder Bear

I think everyone looking for someone feels this way just don't give up and you will be ok.

Or, buy a puppy

Well, you want quality and quantity anyway.That's my motto.Is that the one for clothes too. Well it fits. I just need a few good men rather a whole bunch of worthless one. And if there not your type they are just not. Be thankful

i never use girls

You are only a child of 18 thatone...please don't settle for the first guy that comes along, and why be in such a hurry to land a guy? Patients my dear, you r Mr. Right will come along sooner or maybe even later, until then enjoy your YOUNG life!

**** those losers, just focus on your goals and when you find a man that deserves you, it'll be worth it. Patience is a virtue I hear.

BTW, you're not alone. I for one feel the same way.

Just in case
Men doesn't care you have a solid car

K, just checked your age.....and while some guys your age have all that, most don't.

Most dont have the maturity level to even hold down a job let alone own a car. If you want someone, you may have to look for men a bit older .

I'm just say, I don't need to rely on them to take me places. I can do it on my own.

Also, I do tend to go for older men. Always have been that way.
and by older, I mean 21-24.

Well I don't know where the hell I'm going in life, so I guess I'm ruled out.

Haha.

No, but really, you are only eighteen. Give it time.

Most men dont have their chit together until they are about 30....from my experience.....some even older......just dont let anyone take advantage of you......just because you have more money etc.

have a little faith in yourself before you go looking for something, or else you will settle for what comes

seriously I have that same problem meeting women...

You sound like you need to stop dating to date, and start evaluating a bit more. And yes, most of us guys nowadays have little direction. And jobs, even good ones, don't last forever.
And I wonder why girls fall for those charismatic loser types that leech off them. Could it be that they think these guys will change? Is Mr. Right really Joe Studcake? Or Mr. Mysterious Duderay? Or ManchoMotorManmuffin? Come on. The prince you seek is, likely, the average guy, with dedication to you, his job, and the people around the two of you. There are plenty of these guys out there. You won't find too many of them at bars or partys where everyone is smashed. You'll find them; if you look.
~ sorry I couldn't give you better advice. I'm, BY FAR, no expert. I've not dated in 8 years for Gods sake. And am in no hurry. You can hold out and be single awhile. Chill and make some real friends (good examples in the unreal people thread). I'm sure you'll meet someone. ~
<<if I'm wrong here, feel free to twapp me over the head>>

wulf you crack me up Always offering up your head to get thwapped.

I agree with everyone before me, you are young and the problem with that is there are soooo many experiences that will make you a better partner for a man. Not saying of course that you are not just fine now, because you are, just get some of those experiences under your belt and you will have a better understanding of the way to make a relationship work. It does take lots of work to make a relationship work, everything does not fall into place ever. Good luck

Certain things catch your eye,
But pursue only those
that capture your heart.

You're 18 and you put a bunch of filters on so noone can talk to you. Have fun finding noone.

Older men meaning 20-24. That cracked me up. Keep going.