Topic: Why Do Some Older Guys....
Puffins1958's photo
Sat 11/10/07 07:03 AM
Ok...don't get mad....it was a JOKE!!!

laugh laugh laugh

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Sat 11/10/07 03:04 PM
laugh @ Puffins...

Now I know where all the older men are... grumble
They are chasing younger women... grumble grumble

no photo
Sat 11/10/07 09:07 PM
Nope most have overused viagra and stuck in the doorway until it drops down to manageable levels LOL

Sugardaddy is overused... and I spit on that term...
Friggs they have their own site www.sugardaddy.com
I make my own money... and need not a man to provide...
and don't need to be taught crap.....
People base this too much on ages...

laugh

grizz11952001's photo
Sat 11/10/07 09:16 PM
i think older men run around with younger women for their spunk an fire . some women after 30 just dont have it but some men dont either i guess but younger women have wild eyes that turn men on . an we talk to all women that way its not ment to offend you just trying to get u to understand what an why we are doing somethings sometimes is a real tric to tell women any thing that we want to cause its not what they want to hear lol.

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Sat 11/10/07 09:26 PM
Hey grizz you need to respond to question on abnormal thread...

but on this one... you are gonna pee some ladies off to...

- some women after 30 just dont have it
-younger women have wild eyes that turn men on
-cause its not what they want to hear lol.

I would rather a man be honest and open and spew BS up my ass because he thinks it is what I want to hear...

Wild eyes?? WTF??

no not over 30 but like to think I will still have "it" and know lots over 30 who do have "it"....

RaceryChyck's photo
Sat 11/10/07 09:47 PM
well I can tell you that even if the guy is older doesn't fully mean they are more mature. I was dating a guy who is 6yrs older than me and he decides he doesn't want a relationship/commitment anymore even though we have an infant together. And we were together for about a year b4 I got pregnant..

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Sat 11/10/07 10:01 PM
exactly....
maturity comes in all shapes and sizes
as does intelligence...
as does ignornace...
as does what is considered normal...

society is more apt to say ok to 60m/25f than it being reversed
??? that is BS....

fortsmithman's photo
Sat 11/10/07 11:05 PM
to racery regarding the guy who left you even though you 2 had a kid together he isn't a man. A man would stay and honour his committments fathering a child is a major committment hopefully he's looking after the child financially if he isnt financially supporting the child he never was a man. Call me old fashioned but a man has too look after his responsibilities.

fortsmithman's photo
Sat 11/10/07 11:06 PM
I posted that because these words are how I live my life Honour Integrity Duty these are not just words to me.

shutterbug63's photo
Sun 11/11/07 12:36 AM
hmmm, don't matter how young or old they are, they all ignore me equally the same... noway noway

I've found that younger women won't give me the time of day, and older ones don't take me seriously either. Sometimes I wonder why I'm even on this site. yawn

andreajayne's photo
Sun 11/11/07 01:07 AM
I've done the "younger" thing, all i got out of it was a man who wasnt ready to settle down and commit himself to me.

I want someone who is at the same place in life as I am. It's hard to find 25 year olds who are.

I have had the feeling that I was being looked down on because i was younger, but i talked with them about it. I'm actually quite use to it. I get it in my job quite often.

I suggest talk with the person making you feel that way, they might not even realize thats how you feel, or thats how they are coming off. If its still a problem, then maybe its time to move on beings the compatibility isnt there.

Fresno9324's photo
Sun 11/11/07 08:16 AM
i too want someone in the same place that i'm in or something close....This dating at 50 sucks......If anyone can help i'm interested... Yes i will reocate....:wink:

RaceryChyck's photo
Sun 11/11/07 09:48 AM
Fort,
Yes he helps support his kid. We still live together to help raise the baby but he doesn't want to commit to me as a boyfriend. He has me soooo ****ing confused. He tells me I need to go out since i have my kids 24/5(6) except when I work BUT yet when I go out on the nights that my older boys go to their dad's he is texting me after a couple hours asking if I am coming home.. And if I say anything other than on my way he threatens to leave with the baby and that I would have to drive and pick up the baby and he knows darn well I cannot afford the gas right now to do that. And right now I am still trying to get back on my feet financially and emotionally and he knows it.. I am so close to a flippin' nervous breakdown.explode

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Sun 11/11/07 09:57 AM
I was very inexperienced when I was younger and to be honest I still don't understand men.

fortsmithman's photo
Sun 11/11/07 09:58 AM
Racery I am speechless. You should not have to put up with him. do you have any brothers who could sit down and explain to him him that continuing to act towards you this way could lead to his health problems. Because if anyone did what he's doing to you to my sister the guy would be in intensive cae and I'd be in jail. Because this emotional abuse he's putting you is just has bad as if he hit you. I almost want to go top your town and deal with him myself.

RaceryChyck's photo
Sun 11/11/07 10:02 AM
I have two brothers but they are in their own lil worlds.. I know what you are saying though.. It is just soo hard. and I guess I am truly afaid of being alone. I have always lived with my mom or aunt, my ex-husband and then this guy. And I guess I am also afraid that if he does move out than he won't ever take the baby so I could still get free time. Like I said I am sooo confused ready for a breakdown...

fortsmithman's photo
Sun 11/11/07 10:27 AM
Racey through this site you will find a man who is a man who understands the words duty honour and committment. And the man will love you for you and you sons. don't give up and be strong

RaceryChyck's photo
Sun 11/11/07 03:38 PM
I am trying. I know one of my friends last night was saying I am dumb for running back to my ex at times and that exs are exs for a reason. But I didn't choose for him to be my ex. he did..

fortsmithman's photo
Tue 11/13/07 09:56 PM
Racery You a pretty lady and I've said it before you will find mr right

dchatwin's photo
Tue 11/13/07 10:07 PM
I loooooooove older women. Always have :tongue: