it is a form of epiplexis right?

I can answer your question with a question.how do you Describe yourself amberdee? That should answer your question.

you don't have to answer that!

Epiplexis and or surrogate learning.

I could have answered "grow up". But that's not funny.

Ah hell what do we know? We are just creepy old men.

Older men, who date younger women, then think the younger woman doesn't know what they are doing... well It's not about how intelligent the guy thinks the girl is, it's mostly due to the self esteme of the older guy. he isn't what he once was,he may fell he doesn't have it any more, (if he ever had it in the first place.) he thinks, "Why would she want to be with ME? She can't know what she is doing because I'm not worth it." these guys just need to know you really love them for who they are.
... then again, Your right some guys are just dumb.

"Hmm I might look like the "bad guy" here but too bad.

Not all younger women are so damn smart in fact, some of them are way too immature and still in "party mode". Of course the younger women will probably disagree but wipppeeee!"


Bravo dude,you said it before me,i agree and that's why i try to avoid dating women my age or younger.not saying i wouldn't but she would have to prove to me she is mature mentally

I wouldn't say ladies in their late teens are immature becaue I've met some ladies in their late 30's and older or are rally immature and there are some ladies who a re mature who's head is firmly on their shoulders. It's jsut like us men theere are some of us who are in the late teens early 20's mature head on straight ans then some guys who are older who is the perpetual juvinile really immature, so I'm not gonna judge everyone the same we are all different with our own little quirks.

i have dated older guys... and i like them very much... and i've not had any of them to think i am stupid or dumb... they have treated me very good...

So to all the older men out there this is for you...

This issue is not isolated to the older man/younger woman situation. I have dated men the same age as myself who insisted on trying to tell me how I should do EVERYTHING. I let them know very quickly that I have done this without them for many years and if I need their help/advice, I will ask.

Most older men only wants your youth and don't really care for the intellect. It makes them feel like a man to be seen and be able to entice a young sheila.

btw what most men are talking about is not really what you are talking about too, it is more having some common interest.

older man + young sheila = arm candy

you are gonna have mature/immature with men/women, old/young

what a hoot !

max matey you are not old you just live too far away from us Aussies, my story am stickin' with it haha

Braiannazg2 - arm candy yep...in my case a 60+ years old man might say I am young enough to be his arm candy

im 46 n still a jack hammer.!!!!! lol

seahawks, you are a wild one ...thanks for the giggles

I think Some older men treat younger women like that because they have a fantasy that the younger woman they end up with DOESN'T know what they are doing and need to be taught...

I don't know, just the only answer I could think of.

I think older men...like to parade around with a more youthful looking woman. The ONLY probelm that I can see with that is...as he can be considered a SUGARDADDY and her as ARMCANDY. Eventually what brought them together...won't want to WORK anymore...

Can I say the word...VIAGARA!!!!