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RebelArcher
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Fri 06/10/16 09:40 PM
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It was just brought to my notice that even if it is my house I am not allowed to wear pants here figuratively. It is the ladies who wear pants and give all commands. So what do you think, do you wear pants in your family or some else decides for you? BTW, I don't see it as a men vs women issue. I doubt that many women here would put up with a man coming into HER house making stupid comments like that either. Well, I second that! Both comments.  
Wow thanks for the suggestion and I would rather toss myself out than my father. The idea behind the thread is to know 1. "Is this a common feeling" 2. "Smooth idea to come on top of the situation" Sorry you didnt get just replies you wanted....lifes a bltch, get over it. |
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If we are home without guests, neither of us is wearing any pants.
Its warm here. |
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Well it is not just your partner but your parents too. They love to make an entry with lot of comments and gestures which ultimately result in you thinking about what they meant and said which in-turn makes you do it. Ofcourse the action you are doing but the idea is theirs and not yours. You're 33 ... about time you grow up and start making your own decisions ... |
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In my house I'm wearing pants .. not all the time of course .. sometimes I sleep naked or taking shower, but that doesn't count methinks :))
Haven't seen my black buddy Rocky wearing them though .. |
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It was just brought to my notice that even if it is my house I am not allowed to wear pants here figuratively. It is the ladies who wear pants and give all commands. So what do you think, do you wear pants in your family or some else decides for you? BTW, I don't see it as a men vs women issue. I doubt that many women here would put up with a man coming into HER house making stupid comments like that either. Well, I second that! Both comments.
Wow thanks for the suggestion and I would rather toss myself out than my father. The idea behind the thread is to know 1. "Is this a common feeling" 2. "Smooth idea to come on top of the situation" Sorry you didnt get just replies you wanted....lifes a bltch, get over it. Chill dude..you sound like life is bitching you a lot. I can see who wear pants in your house. May be you are working too hard and need some sleep. Not sure whats wrong with you but hope you get better soon 
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Well it is not just your partner but your parents too. They love to make an entry with lot of comments and gestures which ultimately result in you thinking about what they meant and said which in-turn makes you do it. Ofcourse the action you are doing but the idea is theirs and not yours. You're 33 ... about time you grow up and start making your own decisions ... Wow if age means so much to you then sure you must be the most wisest person in your family I guess .I trying to find a nice way to handle situations here and hence the post. Hope you don't mind me asking help.
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Since it's just me and the dog, the dog.
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Chill dude..you sound like life is bitching you a lot Nah...I didn't make a thread about someone running my own damn house
I can see who wear pants in your house. And everyone can see who doesn't in yours....
May be you are working too hard and need some sleep. Nah, I'm good...I'm old school....not a snowflake.
Not sure whats wrong with you but hope you get better soon Not sure what's wrong with me either buts its damn sure not being a grown man living with daddy....a point you COULD have included in the OP but didn't.....and only "included" it in after you got some advice you didn't seem to appreciate.
But whatever, I've always heard made up fun is better than no fun at all.... To each his own
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Well it is not just your partner but your parents too. They love to make an entry with lot of comments and gestures which ultimately result in you thinking about what they meant and said which in-turn makes you do it. Ofcourse the action you are doing but the idea is theirs and not yours. You're 33 ... about time you grow up and start making your own decisions ... Wow if age means so much to you then sure you must be the most wisest person in your family I guess .I trying to find a nice way to handle situations here and hence the post. Hope you don't mind me asking help.
You know, you have a really rotten attitude when you don't like answers you get. If you cannot handle ppl telling you the truth or giving you advice, then don't ask questions! Or go ask your mommy. There's no need to get all ratty and come back with nasty comments and knock people. That's acting like a big child. Grow up! Which is the answer to your questions too: Grow up! Learn to act like an adult instead of a spoiled child. And if you're still living with mommy and daddy and have no say in your own life, then maybe it's time to move out. You sure as heck got the age for it. |
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Chill dude..you sound like life is bitching you a lot Nah...I didn't make a thread about someone running my own damn house
I can see who wear pants in your house. And everyone can see who doesn't in yours....
May be you are working too hard and need some sleep. Nah, I'm good...I'm old school....not a snowflake.
Not sure whats wrong with you but hope you get better soon Not sure what's wrong with me either buts its damn sure not being a grown man living with daddy....a point you COULD have included in the OP but didn't.....and only "included" it in after you got some advice you didn't seem to appreciate.
But whatever, I've always heard made up fun is better than no fun at all.... To each his own
Second time I'm gonna second you :)
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I so wanted to reply but Crystal and Archer beat me to it....jackwads (meant in the nicest sense lol)
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ummmmm....you culture or heritage be one in which
the whole family living under one roof is normal...and encouraged there are a lot of benefits to this more than one cook in the kitchen help around house help taking care of the babies in this country farming families used to do this all the time easier for the sons to take over and watch over their aging parents some of the not so positive parts would be the lack of privacy everyone is going to be in your business your in-laws/parents will know every little disagreement you get in with your wife and they will all offer opinoins |
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I so wanted to reply but Crystal and Archer beat me to it....jackwads (meant in the nicest sense lol)  Sorry ...
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my dog does
she gets what she wants can talk me out of my food has me wrapped around her paw can make me take her with me when i really shouldnt be <shrug> but its all good she is smarter then me any ways |
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"I do!", I bellowed, then looking over my shoulder, I ask meekly, "Right dear...?"
At least when I was married two decades ago... eldar |
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Lol, Jimmy, I think that's just some women. Mexican women do the same. The formative years in a marriage are the most important. Stand your ground. When your wrong admit it. But don't be brow beating just because someone wants to thump on you. Think before you speak. Women's neural net has developed faster than men. There usually 3 to 16 steps ahead of guys. An old girl friend told me. Poor guys, you got it bad. You were given physical strength. We're were given mental strength to beat you with. Lol. I think it might be the same in India culture too, no? If I were you, and I'm not... I would not use the term who wears the pants. Start thinking of it as shared power. Life, the great adventure that is marriage!
Good luck buddy, Your gonna need it! 
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Chill dude..you sound like life is bitching you a lot Nah...I didn't make a thread about someone running my own damn house
I can see who wear pants in your house. And everyone can see who doesn't in yours....
May be you are working too hard and need some sleep. Nah, I'm good...I'm old school....not a snowflake.
Not sure whats wrong with you but hope you get better soon Not sure what's wrong with me either buts its damn sure not being a grown man living with daddy....a point you COULD have included in the OP but didn't.....and only "included" it in after you got some advice you didn't seem to appreciate.
But whatever, I've always heard made up fun is better than no fun at all.... To each his own
Again I always thank and appreciate people for their advice. It is the tone which made me feel something is wrong with you so I asked. My living alone or with someone has no relation to the post or topic. I misunderstood your comment of tossing the person as making distance with him or hitting him rather then actually tossing him out of my house, my apologies for that. |
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Well it is not just your partner but your parents too. They love to make an entry with lot of comments and gestures which ultimately result in you thinking about what they meant and said which in-turn makes you do it. Ofcourse the action you are doing but the idea is theirs and not yours. You're 33 ... about time you grow up and start making your own decisions ... Wow if age means so much to you then sure you must be the most wisest person in your family I guess .I trying to find a nice way to handle situations here and hence the post. Hope you don't mind me asking help.
You know, you have a really rotten attitude when you don't like answers you get. If you cannot handle ppl telling you the truth or giving you advice, then don't ask questions! Or go ask your mommy. There's no need to get all ratty and come back with nasty comments and knock people. That's acting like a big child. Grow up! Which is the answer to your questions too: Grow up! Learn to act like an adult instead of a spoiled child. And if you're still living with mommy and daddy and have no say in your own life, then maybe it's time to move out. You sure as heck got the age for it. Again I never meant to offend any one especially you, it was just a joke about the age. But if still I have offended you in some way my apologies. I always appreciated every comment given to me and again to get better way only I post my situations. If you have seen all my post it is more about finding ways to improve then just making comments or jokes about people. |
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Not sure why you guys are thinking that only when parents or partner lives with you then only they can intervene in your life. I live alone but still they have a lot of influence in my life. I live in orange county, my parents live in San Jose and Jenny lives in LA.
If you guys follow my post, I have a issue where my mom doesn't like my girlfriend so things are not so easy for me with constant pulling from my mom and Jenny. Making decision without hurting someone is very difficult. I always try to find a middle way so only I posted this thread to understand how people handle such situations where you are making decision based on others decision or situation. |
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