In a situation when you mad with someone & have so much to say to them, wishing to give them a piece of your mind & anger & other frustrations you had ...but when you meet them it eventually leads to the most passionate intimate wild love making session....

how do you feel about that? Can a lot of issues be solved this way ?

Hhhaa.



NO

I somehow agree they can't....but you could maybe reach an understanding level

Sure, I think so.
It is affirmation of a kind that while anger can exist
so can need for the other.

No. Not even slightly.

People who THINK that they've solved a conflict by screwing like rabbits, invariably find out otherwise, eventually.

Here's what's really true:

If the reason for all your fussing and fighting is just external stress on one or both of you, which drives you to snip at each other, or even blame each other for things that are other's fault, then "make up sex" can allow you to relax and see clearly that the problem was NEVER with your mate.

But if you have real problems with each other, and get caught up in some lust-driven session instead, there is a real danger that one or both people will be hiding reality from themselves, and will later explode in some way because of it.

I've seen this happen too many times to think anything else.

Good sex may make you feel magical, but there's nothing actually magical about sex.

Hell no....but it beats fighting and not solving issues either

Hmmm very true

I piss women off just so we can have makeup sex..lol

is it really necessary

And here I was thinking, this is about all the sex you missed....man! you never going to catch up...trust me I have tried.....
Yeah! make up sex is just that....make up....If the underlying issues are deep rooted...WTH you have another reason to have sex again, but the novelty of kinky sex soon wears of and sooner than later, you have to face reality or see it bite you in the azz on your way out the door....just saying...

I would say its compulsory....but then what the heck do I know....

depends...on how long the dry spell was going on

Yes i agree. The deep intumacy won't really solve deep rooted issues but they can be solved if Both are up for it...

2 months but felt like 2 years

Note to self: never use the word.. "dry" when talking about sex.

Basically what you're saying here:
"I'm mad at someone and want to attack them. Instead of handling my problems like an adult I want to vent my spleen on them. Oh wait, look at that, I can vent my penis on them. I get to throw my tantrum and get selfish pleasure at the same time."


Some people are fine being lead around by their emotions.
Some grab a bag of cookies, others use others for selfish gratification. Sometimes it's mutual
One makes you fat, one tends to have a d-bag effect.
Either way leads to a lot of future problems.


Nothing has been solved.
It's like you're saying "my mommy wouldn't give me a cookie and I was sick of that crap, so I slapped her. Then she slapped me back. We slapped each other until we tired ourselves out. Now I don't feel like slapping her. Can all of our issues be solved this way?"

sweetie can I give ya a back rub



look I made all your favorites for dinner



awww now don't be like that

you can invite your mama over this weekend if ya want to