I don’t understand why no one is admitting that we need casual friends, we all know that no one is looking to a long term commitments now days.
So my idea is meet have fun and move on, no interdiction and BS about romance and things.
What do u think??

I think that is a huge generalization.

It's not that I don't want a committed relationship but between my health issues, working two careers and raising two daughters I just don't have time for dating.

I definitely don't want to just date to hook up and move on.

We do not admit to what we do not feel..seems more a man thing,
lack of commitment, ya know?

Referring to romance as "BS" certainly is a point of view :-)

Ummm.. is that anything like casual Fridays?..lol

I think I am in a causal friend situation....and it feels great.....Never thought I could date or have just a causal relationship with a woman...Thought sex had to be involved for a solid relationship.....But I am slowly changing my mind about that.....Dang, maybe I am just getting older.... just saying....

I don't understand why no one is admitting they really just want to treat other people like objects.


I'd disagree.
I think a lot of people are looking for long term commitments.
Just from other people without requiring one in return.
IOW "I want you to commit to being my casual friend whenever I need it for however long I need it, but if I see anything better, or get bored, or whatever, then I can just pursue that, put you on a shelf, but if I need you later you will be there to give me what I need again."


I think that's what your favorite hand is for.

Someone once told me that you don't pay a prostitute for sex, you pay them to go away and only come back if called when the sex is over.