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Depends what you think crazy is What might be crazy for one might not be for another. It's how you look at it. Agree. 
Yeah Ruth. Its a good point :) |
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Edited by
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Wed 05/25/16 09:46 AM
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That really depends on the situation. If someone was to hurt someones family/friends then yea I would expect to see them to go crazy. But now it depends if a person is Bipolar. I have known a few as long as they were on the meds no problem. Take them off of them and anything could set them off. Now you talking crazy they can show you... Now if someone just went off at any given moment for things that don't warrant it then I'm going to distance myself as far from them as I can... It takes a lot to rile me up as far as getting mad... Most stuff there is not a lot you can do about it but make the best of it.. I prefer laughing over getting mad... Thats exactly how I feel kristi! All of us have our push putton issues that trigger an extreme character in us , especially if we feel physically threated or feel that our loved ones are being threatened . But some people 's "crazy " is activated over regular discussions when the person's opinion is just opposite to theirs or if they dont like the person. I am trying not to be judgmental but I find that to be so extreme! |
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I think that's fairly normal human behavior unless it becomes abusive in some way. I agree. Here is an excerpt from The Melmacian Times: 
Well when it's abusive, then that's a clear dealbreaker, but sometimes the form of craziness is really disturbing, when its over things that one might deem unworthy of warranting such a response. Like some respondents said, maybe its all relative to what we assess is normal or abnormal for a person to go crazy over |
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Edited by
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Wed 05/25/16 12:47 PM
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I have known people in my past who are the sweetest kindest people you could ever hope to meet... ...Until they feel angry or emotionally threatened. And then they morph into someone I can not even recognize . Some are loud and abrasive whereas some become cold, hard or irrational. A very extreme "Dr Jekyll/ Mr Hyde" type transformation. I personally have learned to detect such traits from early on, and run away as fast as my chubby little legs will carry me... but lately I have been wondering... Do we all have a crazy person inside of us? I would not call it crazy but we all have the"button" that can be pushed and then the anger just comes shooting out,making one become a totally different person. Yeah jacktrades. the more I read the responses here is the more I think that we all have our push button issues that take us out of character. I just am uncomfortable seeing that side of a person arise under what appears to me to be a non threatening situation. Everyone will have a different interpretation of what qualifies as a threatening situation ofcourse , and I don't want to be judgmental over people's perception of what feels threatening to them, but I think I have to admit I am judgmental on this issue 
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Well, actual insanity is commonly misunderstood. Sanity as well. Crazy is such a slang term, that it's popular to say someone is crazy as a compliment. But all that aside, it has seemed to be more and more true to me, that there are a lot more people in the world with problems of one sort or another, than there are people who are truly balanced, mature, and completely in touch with the real world in a positive way. One of the big frustrations I've had with my own life, has been that by the time I learned how to deal with each stage reasonably well, I was usually at least five, and usually ten years or more past it already. Yeah. I think we all have a couple of areas that we lack a healthy mental balance in. But as for for the other issue you raised, if God blesses you with many years ahead , I;m sure you will get the opportunity to apply the earlier lessons that you are proficient in to parts of your life later on. 
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I personally have learned to detect such traits from early on, and run away as fast as my chubby little legs will carry me... If you think them are chubby, then you are crazy girl  
Hahaha! I should have said chubby thighs.Not chubby legs lolol Thanks for the affirming words Simply complicated 
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Every word you say is true.
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Do we all have a crazy person inside of us? In a word; yes.
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Are We All Crazy In Some Way ?
IMO you aren't really describing "crazy." Until they feel angry or emotionally threatened.
And then they morph... loud and abrasive whereas some become cold, hard or irrational That's just responding to a perceived threat. People aren't crazy to respond to anger or threats. Unless you're talking about something like "I ate the last popsicle, so they blew up a bus full of nuns." That's crazy. Loud and abrasive, or cold hard or irrational aren't really "crazy" responses unless you think laughing and smiles are "crazy" reactions to feeling happy. Do we all have a crazy person inside of us?
We all have a baby inside of us that longs for the freedom to act or react unfettered by the chains and cage of social training. Well I didnt only say emotionally threated Ciretom. I also said angry. I have been angry many times in my life without breaking anything, cussing anybody out or damaging their property , and I have been fortunate to meet quite a few people who have handled their anger in in less extreme ways. That being said, I admit to being judgmental on this issue and struggle to present an objective position on it. Your following quote does resonate deeply with me though . I think its relatable to everyone "We all have a baby inside of us that longs for the freedom to act or react unfettered by the chains and cage of social training." |
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I'm not crazy..
And neither am I..! |
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Yep
We are all a little crazy somewhere or another Trick is Finding someone that's the same kind of crazy as you! |
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I'm not crazy.. And neither am I..! Then congrats to the both of you sher tenn lolol |
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That really depends on the situation. If someone was to hurt someones family/friends then yea I would expect to see them to go crazy. But now it depends if a person is Bipolar. I have known a few as long as they were on the meds no problem. Take them off of them and anything could set them off. Now you talking crazy they can show you... Now if someone just went off at any given moment for things that don't warrant it then I'm going to distance myself as far from them as I can... It takes a lot to rile me up as far as getting mad... Most stuff there is not a lot you can do about it but make the best of it.. I prefer laughing over getting mad... Thats exactly how I feel kristi! All of us have our push putton issues that trigger an extreme character in us , especially if we feel physically threated or feel that our loved ones are being threatened . But some people 's "crazy " is activated over regular discussions when the person's opinion is just opposite to theirs or if they dont like the person. I am trying not to be judgmental but I find that to be so extreme! That is not being judgemental, just being safe and staying away from the drama.. People that get mad in a instant, heck they scare me. You never know what might set them off or what they might do.... So those I will not be around.
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I cant find my link....but there is a theory that we are all crazy....
Just some more than others.... 
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Yep We are all a little crazy somewhere or another Trick is Finding someone that's the same kind of crazy as you! OMGEEE!!!!! I LOVE THIS! How did I ever miss this gem in my wish list? I need a man who's brand of crazy is compaible with mine. WOOOHOOOOOOO!!!! Thanks Freckle Farmer!
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That really depends on the situation. If someone was to hurt someones family/friends then yea I would expect to see them to go crazy. But now it depends if a person is Bipolar. I have known a few as long as they were on the meds no problem. Take them off of them and anything could set them off. Now you talking crazy they can show you... Now if someone just went off at any given moment for things that don't warrant it then I'm going to distance myself as far from them as I can... It takes a lot to rile me up as far as getting mad... Most stuff there is not a lot you can do about it but make the best of it.. I prefer laughing over getting mad... Thats exactly how I feel kristi! All of us have our push putton issues that trigger an extreme character in us , especially if we feel physically threated or feel that our loved ones are being threatened . But some people 's "crazy " is activated over regular discussions when the person's opinion is just opposite to theirs or if they dont like the person. I am trying not to be judgmental but I find that to be so extreme! That is not being judgemental, just being safe and staying away from the drama.. People that get mad in a instant, heck they scare me. You never know what might set them off or what they might do.... So those I will not be around.
Girl . you are singing my song.
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I cant find my link....but there is a theory that we are all crazy.... Just some more than others....
I totally agree Mikey. I'm planning to take Frecklefarmer's sage advice and look for someone whose crazy azz synergises well with mine 
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Yep We are all a little crazy somewhere or another Trick is Finding someone that's the same kind of crazy as you! Hwy thumbs up to the Show Me guy. That sounds like the truth to me. |
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Well I don't know about the rest of these people on here..
But I'm definitely certifiably crazy.. .. pretty sure you already knew that though..lol |
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That was my ex, couldn't trust taking her anywhere because I didn't know if she was going to make a scene or not. Most of the time she did make a scene if she felt she wasn't getting the attention she deserved, or if someone was paying attention to me and not her. I later found out from her family members that she is bi-polar and I had no clue and was with her for almost 9 years. The family member asked if I didn't notice that she self-medicated herself, so she wouldn't have to admit she had mental issues. That hit the nail on the head with me, thinking about all the pot she smoked, pain pills she always needed for some minor ache and her wreckless spending habit. My heart just sank finding that out, but she remarried six months after our divorced so her new hubby can deal with her mental issues, and I've already heard, again through her family member that she still continues to go off at family events, especially around the holidays, which is guess is the worse time for people dealing with mental issues.
As for me, I'm now as laid back as possible and don't get upset at hardly anything but rude *** drivers. |
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