you are not alone ..most relationships end in a melt down..getting a mate is like buying a used car ..you either wind up will a hell of a deal or a lemon unfortunately there are no lemon laws governing relationships..so drive him or her for a while see how they run,kick the tires and if they dont suit you leave their sorry ass on the lot...

<---- do not buy a used car from this guy

better to have loved and lost,than to never love.............i have been hurt very deeply by love,but each new day is an adventure,i have just recently had a taste of what love can be

You cant spend your life in fear go out there and take the world by storm enjoy the good times learn from the bad. Fear is the worst pain. It is not about how many people you date have dated or will date it is what did you get or take from the relationship and what did you give.

Well if you would just quit stalking unobtainable married men, slashing their car tires, trying to burn their houses down, and trying to poison their wives you just might be able to find a descent respectable young man to date.

emphasis on *might* ^ lol

I'm joking denise! Seriously want advice? Finish your education and then go see the world! Don't be scared. Whole great big world out there outside of fernando mississippi for neecy! Might find a real man out there girl! Gotta see the sights. Gotta hear the sounds. Gotta smell them flowers! They don't bite! Travel and enjoy life while your young but never forget where you comin from because trust me responsibility catch up with you fast! Don't worry bout no man! Neecy got what 90% of the women wish they had- their freedom and peace of mind.

Sometimes love can be found on the places we never expect it , not because you haven't gone to a place where there's people socializing means that you will not get to know someone , just enjoy your life, find all those new things that can make you more confident about yourself, this is your time your life and when you start to enjoying it, that will be the time love will come by believe me

when the time is right ...love will find you,so don't worry about it, in time it will come to you.

No hurry, enjoy your youth, don't waste it on worrying about silly stuff like this. Plenty time for boyfriends as you grow older.

This is the best time to educate yourself so you have a good job someday now that is something to hold onto no matter how sucky life is

if you still believe you will get hurt then you won't do anything. If you can get past the hurt feeling and give your self another chance, then sure enough you will meet someone.

This is 8 years later. Do you really think opie has the same problem now?