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Topic: Why do I only attract men my father's age?!?!
sLocked's photo
Thu 04/28/16 02:15 PM
I'm relatively young yet and would like to have a life with family, kids, the works. So why do I attract so many men old enough to be my father! I know some girls like that and are searching for the "sugar daddy", but I'm not and I'd really like to know why I attract so many of them.

mikey5360's photo
Thu 04/28/16 02:19 PM
So many young guys here are searching for cougars...they want the experience...
The older guys are searching for younger...they want the youthfulness...and energy...

The group in the middle ground are left floundering ...waiting, waiting....

Keep plugging away and set your filters...it takes time here...

Twintidbits24's photo
Thu 04/28/16 02:21 PM
Ohhhh....Hmmmm....Maybe it's in the perfume???? Lolzzzz....laugh :wink:

SitkaRains's photo
Thu 04/28/16 02:23 PM
HI Welcome to Mingle
Are you talking about in the real world or on the internet?
If you are talking about the internet you have onlybeen here one day today.

so just set your mail settings to the age group you want and the problem should go away

In the real world I ahve no clue

mightymoe's photo
Thu 04/28/16 02:28 PM
because y'all are easier to train...

sLocked's photo
Thu 04/28/16 02:30 PM
Edited by sLocked on Thu 04/28/16 02:31 PM
Both in the real world and online! Though I've only been here for one day this is not my first time trying online dating. I've tried several other sites but didn't like them for one reason or another. A friend recommended this one to me because you can set your filters. But I apparently wasn't fast enough to figure it out and got flooded...

sLocked's photo
Thu 04/28/16 02:39 PM
So just to recap there's nothing in my profile that's specifically causing this right? Cause I've always used the same general profile and I always get the same results!

mightymoe's photo
Thu 04/28/16 02:42 PM

So just to recap there's nothing in my profile that's specifically causing this right? Cause I've always used the same general profile and I always get the same results!


no, all they see is your age and pic... not much else matters...

no photo
Thu 04/28/16 02:43 PM
I don't want to look in case you think I'm one of those creepy old men tears

Your opening post made me feel ancient, like the pyramids :smile:

Just ignore them and block, or be quicker with your filters ohwell

Now where's my smoking pipe and slippers sad

mikey5360's photo
Thu 04/28/16 02:45 PM
Its the same for us guys....:smile:
I got so tired of all the mail from younger women....slaphead
I just gave up and ran with it...laugh laugh laugh

no1phD's photo
Thu 04/28/16 03:02 PM

So just to recap there's nothing in my profile that's specifically causing this right? Cause I've always used the same general profile and I always get the same results!
it's not your profile it's your perfume... it smells like come and get me..lol..jk. welcome to M2..

Twintidbits24's photo
Thu 04/28/16 03:10 PM

Its the same for us guys....:smile:
I got so tired of all the mail from younger women....slaphead
I just gave up and ran with it...laugh laugh laugh


Ha ha ha ha....Ran with who??? what Maybe it's also your perfume!!!Lolzzzzrofl

Twintidbits24's photo
Thu 04/28/16 03:13 PM


So just to recap there's nothing in my profile that's specifically causing this right? Cause I've always used the same general profile and I always get the same results!
it's not your profile it's your perfume... it smells like come and get me..lol..jk. welcome to M2..


Somebody got the sense of what I'm talking about....Lolzz :wink: laugh
Welcome to Mingle2!!! :banana: :banana:

mikey5360's photo
Thu 04/28/16 03:21 PM


Its the same for us guys....:smile:
I got so tired of all the mail from younger women....slaphead
I just gave up and ran with it...laugh laugh laugh


Ha ha ha ha....Ran with who??? what Maybe it's also your perfume!!!Lolzzzzrofl

Its my natural pheromones...
Caveman scent...hmmm...phewwww...laugh laugh laugh

ErotiDoug's photo
Thu 04/28/16 03:43 PM
Edited by ErotiDoug on Thu 04/28/16 03:48 PM

I'm relatively young yet and would like to have a life with family, kids, the works. So why do I attract so many men old enough to be my father! I know some girls like that and are searching for the "sugar daddy", but I'm not and I'd really like to know why I attract so many of them.


* You have the filter on.
* Your dads 35-40, your 24, your dad was young.
* "and I'm mildly sarcastic." your profile says, so enjoy...
* "sugar daddy", but I'm not" sugar daddy(slang)is with money.
** Are you saying You are not a Panther (slang)

*** I'm confused,,, You had a problem, that is no longer a problem?
Or Is it still a problem?
* Your not after a "sugar daddy". Ok and ??????

Enjoy :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

** Have you thought about wearing a sign in public ?

no photo
Thu 04/28/16 03:53 PM
It's just a bad case of "Ghana'rrhea"...

no photo
Thu 04/28/16 04:45 PM
Yes, I get men that show interest in me that are my fathers age. Mind you, my father is about 42 years older than me. I don't know what they are thinking. A few years back a guy was asking me to to dinner and he was 5 years younger than my father. He didn't even look good. This was in person, not on line.

ErotiDoug's photo
Thu 04/28/16 04:54 PM

Yes, I get men that show interest in me that are my fathers age. Mind you, my father is about 42 years older than me. I don't know what they are thinking. A few years back a guy was asking me to to dinner and he was 5 years younger than my father. He didn't even look good. This was in person, not on line.


** Cougar flowerforyou

** opposite is "Panther

no photo
Thu 04/28/16 05:03 PM
I'm not a cougar since I did not approach him.

peggy122's photo
Thu 04/28/16 05:12 PM
It's nothing to take personally hon.

Let me make a deal with you...glasses
If you get any charming men in their 40's , refer them to me and I will refer the 20 year old men that keep hounding me to YOU.

We sisters need to work together!

Welcome to mingle babe.

Good luck in your searchflowerforyou

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