Thank you I guess I might not have made it clear I have lived all over the world. But I know in me is a woman that likes the simple life..
The older I get I am finding out that doesn't impress much but yet as you said it is me and I am happy with me.

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Hey Thanks...Wolfman...are you free on Saturday, I am scheduled to go for a dinner and dance fundraiser....I need a good wingman....say yes....lol...

Huh?? I hope you are implying that ATM fees are "gross" and banks are not "naked" (transparent)as they "make out" to be...!!

Sorry my friend, but am tied up at work all weekend, but thanks for the invite

That was my thought also.

In this day and age that is all that really counts. It is called being true to yourself.

Walks in to dance hall
Looks around...smirks
Licks own eyebrows
winks
Walks out

WHAT!!.. now we are supposed to impress them... great!! just great!!..
. Right when I thought it couldn't get any more complicated..lol

Look, smell, walk, sit, and talk ect. with a feminine presence. Doesn't have to be submissive but it is usually wise to make the man feel equal and sometimes needed.

Seriously act like a woman who wants the man she is with. Nobody enjoys a date that is looking around, there to be seen, or just went out to be out and while men may tolerate it for a short time for the chase they tire of it fast.

Have enough manners and social bearing that he doesn't feel embarrassed by your actions and how they reflect on him. One can not know all situations or customs but doing your homework is worth the effort of making being with you memorable in a good way.

Make and effort to be interesting. Read widely and try to experience enough that you are not so singular in your interests that you are boring as watching paint dry after a couple of dates. Again you can not be and expert in all things but if you can at least ask intelligent questions it makes for cerebral connections that are more lasting than lust.

Actually have a little gratitude, and say Thank You, that the person who chooses you did so. They did not have to and thanking them for it is still subliminally required. Because so few people think it is necessary it will make you unique with out making you appear desperate. Everyone likes feeling appreciated.

Saying no, politely, to dates you really do not want. Failure in dating and relationships is contagious. Multiple bad dates will sour your overall attitude or at least dampen your interest and enthusiasm and make you pass up a possible if not perfect match. Your reputation precedes you also. It is nearly impossible to fake having a good time with someone you really did not want to go out with.

Set aside money, time, wardrobe, and if you need it childcare options to date. If you are not willing to do these things people will sense that is not a goal for you to be with them and they instinctively feel slighted.

Get away thinking wanting to date is pathetic, or neurotic, or only for a certain age or group of people, or that finding someone is somehow only luck. It is a normal life process and the whole concept that your soul mate is ordained and will fall out of the sky once and only once is ridiculous when there are plenty of people you could be happy with if you want to be.

It always gets more complicated

Great answer again PS, you always seem to beon top of it

Way to Go...Just Be Who You Really Are...If you impress her with that, good thing then, if not, then that is life, Move On....You Don't Have To Be What You Are Not...(It is difficult to pretend just to impress someone)...One way or the other she'll know anyway....

Just be at your best behaviour. If your normal behaviour is good, your best behaviour will be more than enough to impress.
Meaning if you want a well-rounded woman, you gotta make sure you are well-rounded yourself.
And no, that doesn't mean 'eat as much bacon and burgers as you can'.

Being your honest self is always the best.

Oh, hell....I love burgers and bacon

Well Thanks OP. Being on top is fun sometimes and then a few others

My Pappy told me "'New School' dating might make you popular but 'Old School' is what gets you picked (Happily married).

Financial responsibility always impresses me more than "how much" a guy has in the bank. If he has to flash his "balance", Platinum credit cards or jewelry, to try and impress me then he has already lost out.

I am not a hooker and I am not going to be bought into a relationship with assets.

I see going to the ticket counter, gas station, circle burning for a parking spot, going to a map center, and an ATM somewhere around synonymous with going to the bathroom. You may "have" to do it but you do it before the date and as discreetly and as rarely as possible during the date. I don't care if the date is modest just don't make me stand in line or wait awkwardly while you do something that should have been thought through/taken care of before the date. Example you have taken a lady somewhere several times and she invites you over for a home cooked dinner; would you want to have to drive her to the grocery store and wait for her to buy the food and cook it or do you expect for the table to be set, the cocktails to be chilled, and the main course ready to come out of the oven?

I would go with the old school

So...when are the cocktails going to be ready?