What attracts you the MOST about them?

Well since I'm only really here for the forums because I've given up on anything else, I'm going to have to say nothing

Pictures are nice but not the end all for me.
I want to get a glimpse into who the person is.
So a great written profile is a must for me.

When all she writes in her description is "Hi!".......Ooooooolala....me is in love.

Let's not forget about that epic tease," I'll tell you later " ? Doesn't that make the the hair on my head bristle with anticipation.
Oh ! I forgot, my profile says I'm bald.

LoL. And do they ever tell you later?

Hi

Totally understandable, particularly if you are on here to meet a serious companion.

Wow! LoL. Well I am flattered that you participated in my post

First, the photos because as the saying goes ""A picture is worth a thousand words"

Second, the written words in the profile. If one says they have a sense of humor then their written profile should show their sense of humor. If they make me smile, then I'm in love.

Have a nice day, Destiny

Presentation and Photos. If the profile is a waste of time or suggests single mindedness I am going to click on the one that communicates enough to see the writer as a person I wan to communicate with. I am way past eye candy.

Eye candy : Nailed it

Get a like or a friends request and they haven't even seen your profile

I get messages from alleged men pretending to be women asking me do I want to have fun.... I just crack up laughing. Smh.

Have you been successful? I keep messages from booger wolves. These ppl are so hideous, its unbelieveable.

Any who, best wishes to you friend

The instant I see that response I'm looking at the next profile.Generally you have one opportunity to present your case and you have failed to do that.Posting in the Forums affords some people a second opportunity.On one occasion my search parameters produced about 500 potential matches.I'm guessing over 80% had "I'll tell you later" as a response.In my opinion if you can't spend fifteen minutes composing a profile then you are not seriously looking for a partner.Some people can't even be bothered to tick the boxes.The majority of people I have contacted has been in response to something I have read on a forum post.

Some of the forums are cool. I get my weirdos that try to get rude, but then there are some cool chats.

Generally speaking: Nothing. Well, not on Mingle that is as most are far away from me. So I'm here for the forums, hardly ever check a profile, unless when someone asks for a rating.

On other dating sites I do check profiles if a photo appeals to me. First of all if he's single, then his height, next 'has he any young kids still?', then level of education. Then the text.

Sounds very logical! The age of the children can be a deal breaker for me. If they have none, thats even better! But thats wishful thinking on my part. Thanks for the input :)

If she has "69" somewhere in her username

How about 68 and she owes you one?