Hey!! she sounds like she would be compatible with me!!

You need to relax and not over-anaylize every little thing someone says on teh internetz.

I have my own problems to decipher.... but maybe you should quit stalking people

You know I got one of those last night!!!
I have YET to answer an IM!

2 reasons....if we havent talked on an email....it's a bit rude, especially if I'm involved in conversing with the community.
secondly, I'm usually a bit worried about what I might see typed if I do say yes...

But I was in an unusually open minded mood...and said YES last night.

Now mind you...he IM'd ME, and 2 lines into it, he says "I gotta go"! so he went!!! 2 seconds later, I get an email from him saying email me if you'd like to chat more. hmmmmmmmm

If he had time to type an email...why did he have "TO GO"?
Wifie probably entered the room...thats why!

And that emial he sent? went straight into DELETE with no response.

So, Whats your sign?

aight... its on now... whats her screen name? we'll all e-mail her and tell her how great you are... then she can't hide

she might delete...but can't hide

I don't know from a previous post OP you wrote "Well I don't know if they're interested. I imed them once they blew me off after like 2 mins so I sent her an email that said "okay if you didn't want to talk you didn't have to" and i got that response"

Based on what you wrote in the posts you seemed a little pushy to me (just my opinion)... There's tons of reasons why she didn't respond or why she responded the way she did. Unless you ask her and she tells you, you'll never know for sure. My advice and just my two cents worth - don't sweat it and move on... there's other females out there to send IMs to. You'll have to go there a few bad apples before you get to the right one.

touche' windy
after all....its not like they even had a short term meaningful realtionship....(is that an oxymoron?)!

OOOOPS "Wendy", sorry about that...everyones name should be spelled right dang it.

I get this crap all the time from guys. I think they are interested, we talk via IM, then on the phone they call me honey and sweetie... then its like I never hear from them again. Like the other day, I had a breakfest date they guy never shows, WTF?

I don't get it. so, unless they show some real interest, then I am done with them. It happens to much. (maybe I should start asking for flowers or something like that before we meet, that way I know they are really interested )

flowers dont necessary mean they are interested.

I said flowers or something like it. It means that they "want" to make an effort to get to know me more. It means that they will go to some lenghts to want to get to know me... Do you understand what I am saying?

yeah but guys just like girls can be shy. maybe he thought you wouldnt like him?

I know if a guy is really interested, they will call. I have asked all my male friends this... It wouldn't even matter if they are in the hospital... they will call just to say hey.

Like the b-fest date guy, he called all the time... even the morning of and asked if I was going to be there. Then he didn't show up or anything. (it wasn't they way I looked either, I stayed in my car, and didn't tell him what I drove, I knew what he drove tho)

It means she is just going to enjoy the company adna s time goes by learn more about you blah. She doesn't want to spill too much about her personal life and the relationship don't amount to anything. Though, she is interested, but will take the slow approach and go from there. yea, this is the internet, one must take the time to weed through the tossers to get to the genuine people to keep.

hey dreamlynn how do you know he did not have a rented car for some reason?
I think she wants to get to know you more by emails first.

he very well could have. But I knew him enough to know that he would call if something went wrong unless hes dead.

Decifer this ....APLIL wine LOVELY lady..

april,,wine,,, lovely lady,,,,,,

it means: "please don't be impatient. i'm not ready. don't be judgemental though. i'm a little bit cautious. but in a *good* way. anything else you want to know email me."