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Topic: phone convo
Jello7 Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 17	Tue 10/30/07 06:27 PM
I am dating a guy which seems to be going well. Recently he got a job so we cant see eachother in person very much. I have trouble talking on the phone. I am just not good at it. I am great in person with him. Does anyone else have this issue?

onegoofydame Joined Fri 08/17/07 Posts: 3560	Tue 10/30/07 06:28 PM
No. But I hate silences on the phone...they always make me feel awkward, which is why I think I tend to talk my head off on the phone with guys.

WarDriverJ Joined Wed 09/19/07 Posts: 7571	Tue 10/30/07 06:29 PM
Yep! I haven't liked talking on the phone as long as I can remember

andreajayne Joined Mon 09/24/07 Posts: 8202	Tue 10/30/07 06:29 PM
i hate talking on the phone a lot of the time

baseballfanatic1018 Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 588	Tue 10/30/07 06:33 PM
When I had a girl to talk to on the phone I liked it now it's just like meh occasionally I'll talk to a friend but it's like a 5 min at the most convo.

erinestrella Joined Tue 02/13/07 Posts: 330	Tue 10/30/07 06:36 PM
Depending on how close I am with a person, its actually the opposite at first anyway. But now I really don't like talking on the phone so... either way it kind of sucks. This didn't help much I'm sure.. sorry.

lindacc700 Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 62	Tue 10/30/07 06:37 PM
thts kinda with me but it depends who it is.

shutterbug63 Joined Thu 04/26/07 Posts: 1219	Tue 10/30/07 06:40 PM
I'm kinda shy at first. I like it when a woman does a lot of the talking the first time. I don't make very good first impressions anyway, so often I don't ever get a second call.

beachdog50 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 832	Tue 10/30/07 06:47 PM
the silence sucks dont it you want to say you sound pretty your mouth sais my dog has a harry ass..

theemachine Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 725	Tue 10/30/07 07:16 PM
I most definately do not have that problem at all. ...................... because I dont have a phone.

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Tue 10/30/07 07:17 PM
So are you telepathically sending your posts Machine?

Nervesgone Joined Thu 10/05/06 Posts: 4014	Tue 10/30/07 07:21 PM
I can talk, but usually to the point. Sometimes longer. But hate silence!

Odlam Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 87	Tue 10/30/07 08:13 PM
I can talk on AIM for hours, but phone conversations are generally short and sweet - the first time I sense a silence coming up in the near future, I generally spit out what I need to say and end the call, not abruptly but I wrap it up. Can't stand lulls in conversation on a phone for some reason. Good to hear other people are like that too!

theemachine Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 725	Tue 10/30/07 08:15 PM
lol jess, I dunno what system they've wired this place with.

jessed Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 143	Tue 10/30/07 10:52 PM
I have never liked talking on the phone.

sin39 Joined Sat 10/06/07 Posts: 1507	Wed 10/31/07 04:23 AM
If I am talking to a guy, sure, I will jump on me bed or lay on my couch, stretch me legs out and talk away. I have fallen asleep talking to my yank on the phone, poor bugger sits there and listen to me snore too Friends say I have a soothing voice, I think I self hypnotised myself when talking on the phone at times lol

kidatheart70 Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 6234	Wed 10/31/07 04:43 AM
I can talk to some people for hours....and hours.....comfortable little silences in between too.

Random_Stranger Joined Wed 05/02/07 Posts: 2409	Wed 10/31/07 11:02 AM
I don't have this problem. I am excellent to talk on the phone and in person.

kojack Joined Mon 12/25/06 Posts: 16382	Wed 10/31/07 12:27 PM
I love talking on phone. I talk on phone for a living so... With my friends or current sig other never any unawkward silence

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Wed 10/31/07 12:34 PM
Put a picture in front of you & talk to it.