Your perspective is shared by many women who also do not have the looks that allow them the lifestyle they desire. Both you a can be bitter and frustrated as men with education and affluence may desire a woman who closely meets their standards or personal preferences and that leaves them outside that social group Life is not fair and learning how to address these inequities is your responsibility. What would interest me, is learning what you are doing to change your current employment status, seeking additional education and or training and less focus on how you feel dejected ( counselors help with this issue and is available in local mental health centers at little or no cost..) Your desire for unconditional love without you actually being a partner is somewhat naïve as love is most important but in itself is not sufficient to justify a person not capable of work and being a partner instead reminds me of a child who simply wants someone to take care of them regardless of how little you contribute as a man, worker, friend, partner and lover... Hope you address these issues as most of the solutions are not found in others bur rather within yourself when you start assuming more personal responsibility.. Regards

Nah. It's Army Generals, because they are always saying:-

This is going to be long, and it's going to be hard, and there is to be no withdrawal.

Archaeologists have learned it takes a long time to leave a bad impression.