opinion on what drives man to cheat and be faithful without mercy...

what drives man to cheat

^^^ ' drives' ? NO

A man cheats because he wants to.
Nothing 'drove' him to it
Nothing 'pulled him away'
No one 'stole him' or 'took him'

There could be lots of reasons.
But HE & ONLY HE, is responsible for his own actions. NO excuses.

And if does it once, he will do it again. So the best thing to do is get rid of him. Why should a woman worry & watch & wait & deal with a man you don't trust or even respect.

Would a man put up with a woman cheating ? NO...


Next...


EDIT: My point is. Women should NOT blame themselves. Women do NOT drive me to cheat or drink or anything else. Nor should a woman blame another woman for what a man has done. I woman can NOT make a man do anything he doesn't want to do. Including change.


* I have seen this soooo.. many times .. There is no magic v@gina *

Biology, personal desire and/or fear, self image, and social pressure.
What "drives" anyone to do anything.

I think all man do this i mean its their human nature to taste something new to spice things up.they will flirt with their opposite sex to get something and now its all up to us female if we will entertain that kind of guy knowing if the guy is married or in a relationship. My point here is men cheats but you think if the woman they flirted with wont even dare to go and have a sexual or longterm and serious relationship with a married or in a relationship man. Just imagine if all women don't entertain guys like this?i believe that maybe their are no broken families now. So my message here are for the women please don't go with married or already taken guys coz we deserve someone who doesn't treat us as a 2nd option bec they are not happy with their first or what ever their reason for cheating. Their are so many guys out their That is meant for us just have faith bec always remember you will ruin and hurt other people and even be a cause of a broken family.and if you where on the wife or girlfriends shoe you wouldn't want that to happened to you.right? Now don't do unto others what you don't want others to do unto u. I always believe in the law of KARMA.

Only Men cheat?

I believe the answer to this would be


personal choice


ding ding ding!!! what do I win????

No im sorry that goes for both men and women.i just elaborated my message for us women to dont go through the mess of being the other woman.now i dont know how men will react to this bec oviously if you can understand my message im not taking sides here and its just that most of the time you guys are the once doing this.

drives man to cheat??? hmmmm....his own "Uncontrolled" sexual libido and lack of self-respect, if he doesn't want to be called a cheater then I guess he remains single forever with no strings attached.

be faithful without mercy???.... grammar inconsistency....lolzzz....doesn't make any sense at all Would you mind re-phrasing your question???

so the thread listed directly below this with 120 replies wasn't enough to answer this question already?

Cheating, has never been my nature

I would presume, that there are as many "reasons" for people to cheat, as there are people who cheat.

However, it all comes down to self centered greed, and a lack of morals and ethics.

Yeah, I saw this too. Faithful without mercy? Even "UNfaithful without mercy" makes no sense.

I think to be fair, it should say 'partner'..as a man is not the only one to cheat/stray...
I think there is cheating because they don't get (something) at home, but I am sure its not the ONLY reason.. just one.
everyone would have their own reasons.. and others should not judge, lest you be judged..

Yup...we guys are liars, cheaters, crooks and thieves....the little things, you women have to put up with huh......ooops, is this the end of the line for all the good guys??? Wow, it sure is helleva a long line...just saying...

What drives them to cheat? Their "mini me" always wanna play.

My advice? Oh you didn't ask...
but avoid this guy...

Ah!, msrosie,you are a scallywag,a racist and a bundle of fun.

I am really thinking that you might need to change you selection criteria. NOT all men do or will cheat. It takes two people to make a relationship with communication and work. I can't speak for all men but if I have communicated enough with my partner to completely believe and trust her, then she has my full commitment and support. If we are truly a team then I have no desire to flirt or to find another woman, but rather I spend my time sharing and supporting the woman that is always there with me.

I believe that people cheat because their relationship has already broken down for some reason, and they no longer love their partner. You cannot cheat on someone you are truly in love with in my opinion.

you seem to right on point...the idea of trying things. being like a snake bitting what it doesnt eat..