Duh!!..why do I feel as though I can't Always convey on here what I mean?!!.. ...sheesh, ...I'm more verbal as opposed to writing my thoughts....
Gotta get the hang of it I suppose eh?...

LOL I understood you moody

Mental stimulation is paramount to me, that is part of the attraction, moreso than physical.

I need to be challenged, mentally, I require that to remain interested, inspired, and involved.

I get distracted easily, especially with mundane tasks, so even within a relationship if there is no stimulation, no slight tension, then it becomes little too predictable for me, and I get distracted, by other projects, other interests, and the relationship suffers for it, as it doesn't have my energy and focus.

I am liking what I am reading as most agree with what I also believe.

The main purpose of this topic was because I got tired of those would you kiss or have sex or makeout or yada yada topics. They are fun but to me like I've said from the first day i joined in my profile Capture my mind and you capture my soul.

Good topic Kojack -- Well for me mental stimulation is as big a turn-on as physical. One of the guys I'm dating is great with both. We talk about anything and everything. One of the things he loves talking to me about is my writing -- "what did you write this week Twitch -- can I read it"? etc If there isn't anything to say to each other I feel like I'm alone with just some "body" saying nothing beside me. We learn so much from each other and I really look forward to the conversations I share with him -- we always leave each other wanting more. Mental stimulation is a must for me.

Mental stimulation is a must. I can have a lusty feeling for someone but after talking to them for a while I find I lose it because of the lack of mental stimulation. My mind is the way to my other parts.

"Capture my mind and you capture my soul."

I love this Kojack!!

a visaul always helps !

Sin it is so so true

Thanks Kojack..
sorry for the delay...just got in...

no prob not like I waited by puter for 5 hrs and 20 mins for your response

LOL Kojack...ummm, ya mean you didn't??..sheesh, oh well..guess I don't blame you..

lmao nope especially since your blue i huffed and puffed and still blue so... gave up after 45 mins

Moodygrl, I had to click on Kojacks profile again just to continue with me daily fix ...and had to read this again, "Capture my mind and you capture my soul." to bring me back to earth

LOL I hear ya SIN...same here..It has become my mantra..(umm, speell check please)..oh yeah, this topic is about mental stimulation...(sitting up straight)..

Umm Kojack..you are silly..
Really like this topic, thanks Kojack..it is like a breath of fresh air...

speell=spell....dang computer can't type

you both give me way to much credit but ty.