Weird how one day someone can be your world then the next thing they're just a stranger...

Yup.. it's even weirder when someone can say they love you for a number of years. And then as soon as you break up.. they say they no longer love you..wtf.. is that all about?. When I love somebody I love them forever.. no matter what.. well that's not exactly true! if they take the last Twinkie !..we're going to have a problem..lol.wink

It is weird how much people can change. Sometimes you think you know someone....then BAM! You find out that you never really knew them at all.....

Especially goin as far as marriage and kids...I guess people just change

Oh yes - even with marriage and kids...nothing is guaranteed. You just have to live life to the fullest every day. And please don't underestimate the power of a good drink or 2

Yes people change sometimes right under are very noses
.. are they just get to the point where they have had enough and they just shut down..
Become cold and distant
Do a complete turn about on you
. I suppose it's just a defense mechanism to keep from feeling anything or being hurt..yip

A drink or 2 wont even start to help at this point lol dude had me so far deep in him it was crazy. The things we talked about and things that got said is like they dont even matter no more. **** happens and you just gotta deal with it I guess

We appreciate your joining a..dating site???

lmao..

Also for meeting new ppl to talk to...

haha - although this site has been very good throughout the years for people not really looking to date. It's been good to vent using the forums

Which could help you get through tough times. It helped me a few years ago.

I don't know if this makes me weird... (well... apart from all the other things that make me weird) ... But I always feel nervous if I hear a man I am interested in speak about his ex with acrid venom at the juncture of him and I getting acquainted.I always prefer to observe him over time to see if the hate subsides. If he could have loved her so passionately at one time and grown to hate her with such ferocity, then would I become the object of that venom if I don't live up to his expectations in his second attempt at love? Maybe it's paranoid of me. I'm not sure...

lot of people for whatever reasons rush out and jump right into a new relationships..before the dust has settled on the old


problem is...that they never took the time to think over
what occurred in the last one

did not take time to sort thru their own feelings
and end up carrying a lot of that hostility with them into the new one

Smart women in here

You are exactly right. Not the only one that things that way. In most cases guys would call that "insecure" but they just dont understand

Not really.

It's why there are terms like "honeymoon phase" and "new relationship energy."

It's why so many boy bands broke up.


Your emotions are his fault?


Things said matter at the time they were said.
8 year old's saying they're going to be superheroes truly believe and think they can or will become superheroes. Fast forward 20 years they may have completely forgotten ever saying it.


So guys just don't understand.
And a guy or guys are responsible for how deep you are into them.
Okay. No pattern there.