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Topic: help yourself. this will get deleted to
Jess642's photo
Tue 10/23/07 09:05 PM
Player, are you saying your parents didn't raise you, and that they chose not to care for you, and provide for you?

That other's provided for you?

If that is the case, then yes, like all of us, you have a story, and a set of experiences, that others will relate to you.

Not everyone is on this site to find their mr or mrs right, not everyone is on this site to just look for friends, this is a community, these forums, all of us, have something to share, none of us are the qualified experts...we are all the same, regardless of age.

Relax, and be you, with or without the advice....


No-one wins when they place themselves above another.

lily38's photo
Tue 10/23/07 09:06 PM
Uh-oh......my disgust is turning to pity!!

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Tue 10/23/07 09:07 PM
Try puting yourself into the other persons situation. There are a lot of people in this world that are in situations that they did not ask for. Just before you give advice try to envision yourself in their position.....and understand that you don't have all the facts of their previous life. Have they been abused, neglected, raped, etc etc etc.......don't pretend that you know everything about any given situation! Nobody here does except for the person who has posted the question.

lily38's photo
Tue 10/23/07 09:09 PM
Well spoken, Fresh!

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Tue 10/23/07 09:11 PM
don't talk about your parents?why not,you're doing it because in case you didn't notice your parents fall into YOUR category of "old"and by saying old people don't know anything,you're saying your parents don't know anything.


let me say this,the things that are dicussed on here,you can't learn in school or from a book.you learn by personal experience and when one of the members asks a question,they are asking help from people that have gone through the same situation before,not people that has learned the answers to all of life's problems through school!

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Tue 10/23/07 09:12 PM
no my parents didnt take care of me. and i feel that i know alot on relationships sorry to say it. but i tell the people who write the post at times that only you can answer that question. if i dont know it i wont post a comment trust me

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 10/23/07 09:13 PM
Those who can't do, teach.

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Tue 10/23/07 09:14 PM
Life is life, player. Each person thier own.Want to help? Listen to the person. We are all different, and ways, similar.

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Tue 10/23/07 09:15 PM
And youngun, trust is something YOU have to earn! Its not a given!

adj4u's photo
Tue 10/23/07 09:16 PM
yes, i was older when i was 18

but

i am younger than that now

and grown ups understand this statement

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 10/23/07 09:17 PM
Squeeky wheel gets the grease.

lily38's photo
Tue 10/23/07 09:18 PM
YEEEEEEHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker

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Tue 10/23/07 09:18 PM
RIGHT. i know alot about realtionships not to sound young but im a player. i know alot about relationships because i been in alot. some serious some not but i learned alot. and i have many female friends. i will not go on about it

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 10/23/07 09:19 PM
Players playin us. Playa please.

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Tue 10/23/07 09:20 PM
Right. Anyone over twenty?

Jess642's photo
Tue 10/23/07 09:21 PM
At 18 you have played with the affections of many women, is that what you are saying?

Are you looking for applause?

I certainly hope not.

How many children do you have?

What was the longest length of a relationship, and why did it fail?


Walk the walk, player, I am tired of the talk.

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Tue 10/23/07 09:21 PM
laugh laugh laugh
I know the "players" that I have met actually knew very little about "relatonships" and a lot about games...thus the title player....

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 10/23/07 09:22 PM
The early bird gets the worm.

lily38's photo
Tue 10/23/07 09:22 PM
You had some pretty heavy playground love affairs, huh?
Some kiss and touch under the bleachers?
One too many Proms?
Unwanted pregnancies?
STD's?
Divorce?
Death?
Finacial ruin?
Emotional destruction?
Mental incapacitation?
Lack of libido?
Too much libido?
What is your advice for treating a painful, embarrassing itch, Grasshopper?
huh

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Tue 10/23/07 09:23 PM
laugh laugh laugh

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