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Topic: Do people even do these dating apps.
TexasMade4566's photo
Tue 12/29/15 10:41 AM
I've had these apps for about a week. I've messaged maybe 60 or 70 women and gotten only one reply am I doing something wrong ?

soufiehere's photo
Tue 12/29/15 10:44 AM

I've had these apps for about a week. I've messaged maybe 60 or 70 women and gotten only one reply am I doing something wrong ?

60-70, eh?
Form email?

Not all gals are blonde, ya know.

Welcome :-)


mightymoe's photo
Tue 12/29/15 10:46 AM

I've had these apps for about a week. I've messaged maybe 60 or 70 women and gotten only one reply am I doing something wrong ?


didn't Einstein say the definition of insanity was doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results? maybe try saying something different in your emails...

EmJ1504's photo
Tue 12/29/15 10:52 AM
Make them personal.
If you can't think of anything from reading their profile (little subtle hint there) then comment on a photo (preferably not their main pic if they have more than one) then at least they know you have looked at them long enough to form an opinion.

no photo
Tue 12/29/15 11:02 AM
I don't know what you are doing. But this site works for me. And I'm an old broad. :wink:

TexasMade4566's photo
Tue 12/29/15 11:15 AM
I have used different messages. All polite and well thought of. Nothing rude or crude in my messages.

soufiehere's photo
Tue 12/29/15 11:22 AM

I have used different messages. All polite and well thought of. Nothing rude or crude in my messages.

Yet, formulaic?

adivorcedone's photo
Tue 12/29/15 11:26 AM


I've had these apps for about a week. I've messaged maybe 60 or 70 women and gotten only one reply am I doing something wrong ?


didn't Einstein say the definition of insanity was doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results? maybe try saying something different in your emails...


Einstein certainly said that and he is absolutely right on the money. If you want something you never had ,then you gotta do what you have never done....is all I am saying...

sybariticguy's photo
Tue 12/29/15 11:26 AM

I don't know what you are doing. But this site works for me. And I'm an old broad. :wink:
Your photo could use a makeover for your hat and glasses are not helping actually offer a visual representation that suggests any affect .. haven't read your narrative so im not commenting

TMommy's photo
Tue 12/29/15 11:28 AM
hmmm did ya sit down one day and compose a well thought out
introduction letter about yourself..

and now are sending it out in mass quantities?

instead of taking the time to actually read
a woman's profile
and then comment on it
so she knows you have read it?

adivorcedone's photo
Tue 12/29/15 11:29 AM
I am not going to check out another guys profile, but do you have the shades on in all your pictures.... Women like to see eyes for some reason or the other....window to the soul or some other mushy thingy...lol...

TMommy's photo
Tue 12/29/15 11:30 AM


I don't know what you are doing. But this site works for me. And I'm an old broad. :wink:
Your photo could use a makeover for your hat and glasses are not helping actually offer a visual representation that suggests any affect .. haven't read your narrative so im not commenting
ya do realize that you are not quoting the OP of this thread but a hoodie right? bigsmile

adivorcedone's photo
Tue 12/29/15 11:37 AM



I don't know what you are doing. But this site works for me. And I'm an old broad. :wink:
Your photo could use a makeover for your hat and glasses are not helping actually offer a visual representation that suggests any affect .. haven't read your narrative so im not commenting
ya do realize that you are not quoting the OP of this thread but a hoodie right? bigsmile


Ya you tell em TMommy...that is so damm funny, I have tears in my eyes....

no photo
Tue 12/29/15 11:46 AM



I don't know what you are doing. But this site works for me. And I'm an old broad. :wink:
Your photo could use a makeover for your hat and glasses are not helping actually offer a visual representation that suggests any affect .. haven't read your narrative so im not commenting
ya do realize that you are not quoting the OP of this thread but a hoodie right? bigsmile

And the hoodie as deactivated too

adivorcedone's photo
Tue 12/29/15 11:52 AM




I don't know what you are doing. But this site works for me. And I'm an old broad. :wink:
Your photo could use a makeover for your hat and glasses are not helping actually offer a visual representation that suggests any affect .. haven't read your narrative so im not commenting
ya do realize that you are not quoting the OP of this thread but a hoodie right? bigsmile

And the hoodie as deactivated to


Ouch! that gets even funnier....or is the plot going to thicken any further...lmfao.....

Dodo_David's photo
Tue 12/29/15 11:53 AM

I've had these apps for about a week. I've messaged maybe 60 or 70 women and gotten only one reply am I doing something wrong ?


Try a little patience and a major rewrite of your Mingle2 profile.
Currently, your profile doesn't really give a woman an incentive to write back to you.

mikey5360's photo
Tue 12/29/15 11:53 AM

I've had these apps for about a week. I've messaged maybe 60 or 70 women and gotten only one reply am I doing something wrong ?


Yep....

Mass mailing with a possibly generic letter is doomed for failure...
Do you really feel attracted to that many women....wow...

Here's a tip, improve the content of your profile....
View....not mail as many profiles as you want....
Then sit back and see which ones view you back....
They will be the ones showing a little bit of interest....
They are the ones you need to write too....drinker

adivorcedone's photo
Tue 12/29/15 11:58 AM


I've had these apps for about a week. I've messaged maybe 60 or 70 women and gotten only one reply am I doing something wrong ?


Yep....

Mass mailing with a possibly generic letter is doomed for failure...
Do you really feel attracted to that many women....wow...

Here's a tip, improve the content of your profile....
View....not mail as many profiles as you want....
Then sit back and see which ones view you back....
They will be the ones showing a little bit of interest....
They are the ones you need to write too....drinker

Perfectly good advice...its what I learnt too...

EmJ1504's photo
Tue 12/29/15 12:01 PM
Or keep looking at the same person until they accuse you of being a stalker oops

Not the best idea, but it got the conversation started! :laughing:

HellzNZ's photo
Tue 12/29/15 01:17 PM


I've had these apps for about a week. I've messaged maybe 60 or 70 women and gotten only one reply am I doing something wrong ?


didn't Einstein say the definition of insanity was doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results? maybe try saying something different in your emails...
<<<<< this speaks volumes well said think smarter not work harder good luck ...

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