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| Topic: Would you like to go on a date with me? | |
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Yeah i would like to date you
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not like that.
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Hi...
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Edited by
isaac_dede
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Wed 11/18/15 08:17 AM
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A casual date or hookup is one thing...the girl should go for it....
anything more serious than that if a woman asked me it would most likely be an automatic turn-off and instant rejection(even if before I 'had a thing' for her). To me it feels like she is 'forcing' the guy to make a decision that he may not be ready to make....but once he makes it there is no recovery....(say he is still figuring out how je feels for this woman...he doesn't know yet..she asked him and his gut says 'NO TOO SOON',so he tells her no....relationship over...no recovery) But I'm old-fashioned I guess, and not all that shy(anymore).... |
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Yes. Ask away. Anyone should be able to go up to someone else and ask them out. Women can do what they want just like men. To sit back and wait and hope for a guy to ask you out, only gives him more power over you and your feelings - your happiness should not be dependent on his whims - you should be in control of your destiny. If a woman wants something, she should go for it - just like a man should. And if a man can't handle a strong woman who wants to go after what she wants, then he doesn't deserve her.
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I think there’s absolutely nothing wrong with asking a guy out- they get shy just like girls do, and a lot of men like a lady who isn’t afraid to make the first move. Right?    
9 out of 10 psychiatrists agree.......chicks who make the first move should also buy dinner.
Haha not happening ok 50/50 then. or two tabs. I did that once, but only once because she never called me back. Phew! lucky you! seriously. |
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I suppose its ok but I am very shy and that would be very difficult for me to do..
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Ahem!!!! there's nothing wrong!!! wish all the women follow your style ...so u finally got all it takes to ask a man out!!! A man is less complicated than a woman...probably the reason why god is still wondering what runs on a womans mind!!! no judgements why you would ask a man out!!! one woman asking a man out is fun...2 is company...three is plesaure...
   
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I think there’s absolutely nothing wrong with asking a guy out- they get shy just like girls do, and a lot of men like a lady who isn’t afraid to make the first move. Right?
I can't imagine a guy in your country being ' okay' with a woman being that forward. Even in my country, it is NOT likely that a man will respect you or even take you seriously as a person, for asking, before, during or after the date. They will probably look at the woman as " the kind you don't take home to mother " |
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I agree . In the land of equal opportunity as we are why should it all be down to the man to make the move .x
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I agree . In the land of equal opportunity as we are why should it all be down to the man to make the move .x Agree... 35+ years ago.. sitting at the Legion, having drinks.. handsome man walks in.. Our eyes kept glancing at each other.. finally I walked over to him, gave him my number and told him that I found him attractive and would he like to come to my apt. for dinner the next evening.. He did. We ate, had sex.. and nothing came of it after that..just an incident in life. Today, (although I am a little rusty..) I could do the same thing...and not feel self-conscious, but these days I'd have to have a good strong feeling (horny?) to make it worth my while.. I don't see anything wrong with a girl taking the initiative.. girl power! |
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why not
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I think there’s absolutely nothing wrong with asking a guy out- they get shy just like girls do, and a lot of men like a lady who isn’t afraid to make the first move. Right?
There's absolutely nothing wrong with a girl doing the first move. If you have the guts why not. But it depends on what type of personality you have as well as the type of man you are dealing with. Each and everyone have different behaviors, for some people that is acceptable but to others it could be too strongly liberated to go after a man. Anyway, there's no right or wrong, anyone can do what he or she wants to do. Feel free to do what is convenient to you. But for me, I would rather wait for a man to make the first move......at least with that I would surely know he is interested or is really into me.I believe, a real gentleman makes the first move and a real lady knows how to wait and act like a proper lady in front of a man. |
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U sure r right
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A casual date or hookup is one thing...the girl should go for it.... anything more serious than that if a woman asked me it would most likely be an automatic turn-off and instant rejection(even if before I 'had a thing' for her). To me it feels like she is 'forcing' the guy to make a decision that he may not be ready to make....but once he makes it there is no recovery....(say he is still figuring out how je feels for this woman...he doesn't know yet..she asked him and his gut says 'NO TOO SOON',so he tells her no....relationship over...no recovery) But I'm old-fashioned I guess, and not all that shy(anymore).... Don't think this is gender specific, can be the girl who thinks 'No too soon'. Not sure why it would matter who rejected who. Is it OK for the guy to 'force' the girl to make the decision? |
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I think there’s absolutely nothing wrong with asking a guy out- they get shy just like girls do, and a lot of men like a lady who isn’t afraid to make the first move. Right?
I don't think I would. But you go for it, girl! |
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Disagree guys should responsible for that
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Yea.. You are right.. Moreover, there is saying which says ladies first... There is nothing wrong if ladies takes the first step..
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I would prefer for him to ask then I know he is interested in me.
I have only ever asked one guy. I don't think I will do it again. I'm to chicken |
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