Not going to rush around anymore just dating anyone who comes along and ending up in relationships without realising it.

Gonna take my time and try my best to get the next one right!

here's a prime example of why I am single


get this message yesterday NO NO NOT FROM HERE
seems like a nice enough guy
around my age
fairly good looking with a beard
so I answer his message

on another site
yada yada
he has two kids
so do I
He was married for 15 years
she left him
ok not too bad so far..


asks me what I am doing on my saturday
I tell him I have a big paper to write
worth 100 points and I am gonna
be typing like crazy all day

so I have it set up so my phone will buzz if I get a message
uh huh...

so 20 minutes later it buzzes
he is on way to mall to take his daughter shopping with her b-day money

ooooookay have a nice day then

half hour later
another message
he is at the mall, girls are in the store boot shopping
he is standing outside bored

wtf?? sorry to hear that bye now

hour later
another message

hour later another one

I must have gotten 8 messages from this guy who took his daughter shopping

so the last one says
" hey babe so whatcha up to? have any fun today? LOL"

" %^^$#@%&**(&^^%$$%!!!!!"

I admit that I am sometimes clueless about which questions to ask?

But there were a lot of things I would have wanted to know...what is the paper on? What a you majoring in? Questions about your kiddos??

Definitely not whining about being bored....How much I hate shopping...How about that you are enjoying spending time with your kids!!

I flushed my ex down the toilet bowl...

Now waiting for the right one to come, at the right place, right timing........ where are you???!!!??

I don't really know what to talk i need some friends

I will tell you later.

because she had to make a choice.. the bottle of Vodka or her husband...and I came in 2nd

because counseling did not even scratch surface of the issues we had
because in order to work on a problem you must first admit it exists
because every disagreement became a battle of the wills
because you cannot change someone who does not want to change
because we were in constant competition with each other
because he was a master manipulator
I got good at that particular chess game
until finally I walked away

I'm trying to get things together, besides I just want to settle down for a while

Exactly

Well I'm quite happy being single really no pressure to get a girlfriend was with my last partner for over twenty years and we are still very good friends.

I'm trying to see if the friend I have a crush on, will take me on. He's flirted with me a lot, and I thought I'd love to turn the heat up. Lol

i usualy have dates but once guy come to know when ask about my past that am widowed he prefer move on, i dont know whats wrong, but if my hubby died in duty it doesnt means i have to mourn all my life, he alone said get married again in case it happens and have kids and be happy so am single from 2010and why am single well,,, guess i dont meet real mens

Why am I single? Nobody in my area wants a real relationship. They just want to **** around and play games.

Two things. Reading your post made me think of Tim McGraw's' If you're reading this. Second, it amazing the baggage that divorce and widowship creates. I, like you, see nothing wrong with getting married again if the opportunity presents itself.

Man, I don't understand that. I *absolutely* agree with the "if my hubby died in duty it doesn't means i have to mourn all my life" philosophy. It's very sad that your husband was taken away too early - but there's *NO* d@mn reason that _two_ lives should end when one does.

You're an attractive lady, & I hope that you SOON find a great guy who will build a wonderful new life with you.

I love your reply....
Simply, honestly, the best

cuz i havent found a good woman that can drive the gettaway car..Bonnie were are you?