Life is a game, some just don't play honestly, or respectfully, don't accept anything less than what you deserve

You can have so many skeletons in your closet that it resembles a graveyard. You can keep your emotions in the medicine cabinet. You can hide your dilusions under your bed. You can sweep your mindset under the rug. You can put your true feelings in the refridgerator to stay cold for later. But what do you have? A house of hidden hope. With a tv blaring what you want to hear "now more cheesier" in the background. And I'm the one whose crazy because I don't own a tv. You don't want a "good man". You want an obedient puppy. And the humane shelter is full of them.

Never been to my profile then

You know I'm not talking bout you nick OR many others. I'm talking about the ones who hide their misgivings in their ads. If they can't be honest and up front with me or themselves why bother yknow? Quit wasting my time and their time. Plenty of people to lie to in the bar down the street. Oh I forgot they're not welcome there anymore.

not all people do.

ohps , some people are real like me .

I didn't say I've NEVER played "the game". When I was a teenager I was a full fledged player.... buuuuut somewhere around 19 I just grew up and got sick of it.... wish everyone else would follow me

yes well we are did at one time. hi jayme yes I wish they would too. it might be fun following you . lol just kiding. smile and the world will smile back at you , if they dont I will.

Man......Im so miserable without her......its almost like she's here!!!!!!!!

ive never been looking for "prince charming". hes usually too good to be true and stuck on himself. at a point i started to feel all i deserved were the a**holes that only will mistreat me. theres no such thing as "perfect". all i want is someone i click with. ive made mistakes, i have flaws, and i have no problem admitting it. dont ask of someone else what you yourself are not willing to give. how can you want a "perfect" man when you cant say you're "perfect". gotta be realistic. there's no such thing as a soul mate, but you'll find plenty of people you like and will maybe love some, just gotta find someone who loves you back.

I love games. Who wants to play Mario Kart DS?

Yes I'm developing a pet peeve for absolutely irrational, insecure, neurotic individuals who blame everyone else but themselves for their own mistakes and expect everyone to bow down to them for their own misgivings. Sorry I've made my own mistakes and blame noone but myself for my own stupidity. That's right I said it. I'm stupid. I made mistakes. I learned. Its not your fault. You are not to blame. Its not the cops fault. Its not my freinds or parents fault. It was my fault. Say it with me. "but no you don't understand!" up up up up that's an excuse try again it was my fault. "but I didn't know the gun was loaded." that's ignorance try again. It was my fault. "but my brother got me drunk and made me drive." no that was a choice try again. It was my fault. "but he fell asleep on top of me that's how I got pregnant again". No that's blame. Try again. It was my fault. "it was my fault." that's right it was my fault. Feel better? You are responsible for your own actions and for every action there's a reaction. Simple physics!

lhb ur great

Awwwwwwwwwwwwww but.................. longhairbiker I must say I agree with you totaly. We are the ones that make the decsions of what our actions are and where they will take us. We have no one to blame for our actions but our selfs. We are the ones that must live with our own mistakes regardless. Who others blame they are the ones that have to live with it in the end

Don't get me wrong. Its just some things don't need to be advertised. Like lack of intellegence. I feel men that start threads called I'm bored, who wants to do me, and I'm sh!tfaced drunk well shall I say a little misguided? Someone tell me those threads are winners. Cmon I dare you.

ok, those threads are winners. LMAO
sorry, cant pass up a dare!

with 3 kids or with lhb around its never boring

I'm not barking up a tree or stroking myself. Its just I've changed where deceitful people bother me. I got rid of all the losers and liars in my life years ago and discovered there are some real neat, fun, honest people out there who think like me and have become my freinds. People I trust and love. And its been great. I've been blessed.

Well I can only speak for myself. I talk my relationships very very seriously, and I don't play games.

Not sure if anyone else pointed it out or not, but I've noticed in my time that most "game playing" is really created by something your partner is insecure about, affraid of, or been hurt by in the past. Not necessarilly something you did, but some element of the situation sets off an alarm in the person's mind, placing them on the defensive without them realizing it.

It took a very special person sitting down with me recently and going over an event from each of our viewpoints to turn out that little treasure. One hell of a lot of trust, there. So I thought I'd share the idea with you all and let you come up with opposing arguements :-)