I am trying to and am serious about running away from my family. The reason is that my family is very conservative, typical, old fashioned, and are unsupportive in my life. I don't get the support I need to follow my dreams. To be honest I have no free will here. I have a strict life with strict curfews and no say in my life whatsoever. I love my family but in order to fulfill my dreams and to live a life that I call normal I need somebody's help to run away from home, and if possible from the country. I am from lahore, Pakistan and am looking for help from anywhere around the world. Also, I am ready to leave the country to anywhere where the people are loving and open minded. Please help me out.

Bravo to you for wanting to have your own life. As adults we all do, it just depends on how extreme it is for our sanity & happiness & freedom.

Here in Mingle2 you could find lots of emotional support & friendship.
But that is about it, my friend.
Good luck to you.

Mee too but lookin for Pendoraa ;) ( Watch Avataar Movie)

Your picture shows you in a car.

Why not just drive...

The best place to start is within yourself as desiring help from others is a sign of dependency and not likely an effective solution to a personal desire. Without sufficient information regarding age, parental issues you sound immature and lacking discipline to address your personal goals.. I hope you consider getting a counselor to help address these desires as only they can ascertain a helpful solution to your posited dilemma...

few options spring to mind
1. get a job
2. go to school
3. join military
4. join the circus


good luck in your choice

I don't mind working, but to be myself I'll need to leave this country.

Why did Lahore become part of Pakistan and not India after the partition of 1947? - Quora

http://www.quora.com/Why-did-Lahore-become-part-of-Pakistan-and-not-India-after-the-partition-of-1947/
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Geez..he is 21. He is a grown man & old enough to decide to leave (India), which is now Pakistan.

He made his decision. He just needs a game plan. How easy do some of you think that is?

Ya could drive to Bangladesh, find yourself a nice Bangladeshy girl and move in with her family.

You could come to Canada but you won't like it here
. The winters are cold and long..
And it is really expensive here..
.. in order to live here you have to be very self reliant... you have to be able to stand on your own two feet without help from.. others...

Its natural at your age to want to strike out on your own and make a life for yourself. My advice to you is do it but, first of all your family will always be your family and when your alone thousands of miles away and things go wrong you will miss them believe me I know this for a fact.You are a man and the life journey is in front of you, some things will be great and some really bad, good luck to you young man and remember try to have a little fun along the way...

I don't think this a just a simple case of "growing up & moving out". It probably is a triple whammy.

1- leaving home
2- leaving the culture
3- leaving the country

Calling home to say " Hi, miss you guys". May not be an option, if someone could be treated like a disgrace for leaving or shunned
*This is common in all tight knit cultures and/or religions, through out the world*

Similar situation to being part of a cult. Sorry that you're finding life so unbearable. I'm sure I'd want a new life MYSELF if that were to happen to me. Actually, I can sort of relate to people making you feel obliged to stay. But why should you?

Simple: Just do what it says to do here: Refugees

Any questions? Contact these people:
USCIS New Delhi Field Office


They will be happy to collect your fees for all of the various forms they have ready especially for you.

Best of Luck

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