eeeeewwwwwwwww!

this topic was just posted at the perfect time for me sry, i had to deal
with the ex today and it wasnt bad but when u see someone that you know
is miserable in their situation yet to scared or just plain dumb to do
soemthing to get out of it , it tends to make you in a bad mood.
Especially when your kid is involved.

Several reasons come to mind, like lack of communication, un-met needs,
anger towards s/o, opportunity to stroke that ego, hurt towards the s/o
other with retaliation, dealing with your evil seductive girlfriend,
just to see if we are still attractive to someone else, wanting
variety,shouold I go on?

and the best one of all sheer stupidity

so now that we got that out of the way lets move on to why you shouldnt
ever cheat on you s/o

NOW ME I'LL NEVER CHEAT ON A WOMAN BECAUSE I LOVE HER TO MUCH TO EVEN
THINK OF CHEATING!!!!!
BUT IF SHE CHEATS ON ME I'LL GIVE HER A SECOND CHANCE!!!!!!

yeah thats almost what anything here eluded too wow your pretty quick

wow sorry that wasnt called for must still be some suppressed anger from
court today my bad man. for real

YEAH IF I CHEAT ON MY GIRL I WOULD NEVER FORGIVE MYSELF!!!!!!!!

if youre in love there should be no reason to cheat. i just odnt get why
ppl fall in love with ppl they cant be comfortable with. I wouldnt
date someone whjo wanted to live inthe bars cuz I dont want to live like
that and vice versa. If ppl took their time and just waited instead of
jumping into serious shit too fast the world would be abetter place,
there wouldnt be so many kids dealing with stupid custody issues between
ther parents. I didnt cheat but I made the mistake of getting involved
with someone too fast so im a dumbass in my own way.

and im not a believer in love at first sight, i call that lust.

YO DUDE YOU CAN CALL IT WHATEVER YOU WANT BUT I CALL IT SOMETHING
DIFFERENT!

thats cool, thats what makes this a cool site we can agree to disagree,
everyones different.

people can come up with all kinds of reasons for this. But the fact
still is, if you are unhappy you need to express that with the person
you are with. If you can't work it out, then you need to break up
before you get with someone else. The guys part is a little rediculous
in this. I am a guy and i would never cheat. However, my ex girlfriend
cheated, and we talked about it. While she never did anything physical
with other guys(not even a kiss) she still went clubbing and stuff with
all the guys. she said she enjoyed teasing people and seeing how much
attention she could get out of it. She just liked the fact of doing
something bad and getting away with it. I don't know how to explain how
it was cheating, but it was bad enough that her mother told me about it
and the ex, her mom, her dad and I all agreed it was cheating. I didn't
want to be harsh about it, because enough people were mad about it, but
i threw her to the curb.

not every man cheat

ESPECIALLY NOT THIS ONE

Even though I don't like it, the truth (as I know it) is that human men
and women are very much still a part of the animal kindgom, and it
shows.

In every herd, there is an Alpha Male, an Alpha Female and all the
others. It is the A/Ms job to protect the herd from would-be suitors
from other herds, but it is their right to breed every female he can.

Being a former wife who is divorced because her former husband BELIEVED
that shit, I had to repeat his theory. Men cheat (a) because they are
primal hunters; and (b) because they can.

yeah we are part of the animal kingdom but what seperates from the rest
is the ability to control ones urges or instincts i never cheated but if
im not happy ill break it off before looking for a new mate id rather
feel rejected than betrayed anyday i believe in honesty and i tell every
woman i have ever been with up front if you cheat its over no second
chances i want someone i can trust cause i dont have any problem
controlling myself .

why do men cheat? why do women cheat? who knows its in there nature its
what some people choose to do

Y NOT??