Tonyat, I agree with you completely! I don't like chasing guys online or off. Well, let me rephrase that: I'm perfectly happy to chase guys if they want me to! I mean, if they're happy I'm chasin' 'em and not put off by it.

But more often than not, I find they don't like it. No matter that it's 2007, no matter all the sexual/social/political changes in the world, I think guys still prefer to be the ones who "hunt". If we do the hunting, what are they left to do?

Okay, no need to get graphic here but I don't like being the one to initiate contact. It's never worked out. Never!

Hey all. How's the return e-mails cominig? Still nothing? Well just thought after a few additional weeks of trying, still nothing for me either. Guess these people really are not interested in dating, meeting each other or even letting others know they are out there. Oh well, there loss. Nobody wants to make the first move,and when you do....... nothing.
Oh well, chin up, smile and go on. If there not going to acknolage you, guess there not worth going after.
Good luck once again all.

Curious9 same thing here with the mutual matches, even if i write then i get no response back. Thought it was just me.

I have experienced this to, however I think some people are to quick to add a mutual match. Me I chatted with a very nice young lady and she added me so I just figure that is how I will make it work.

Hey all. Just a quick update. I finally got some return e-mails from several ladies. I feel like I need to go out and buy a loto ticket. Conversations were actually sain. Guess I should consider myself lucky at this point. Who know what may happen. Hang in there all. They are out there.

Hey Curious -- got the same problem; i just ignore it

A lot of people do not take the time to read the Profiles. In my opinion, if you say yes, no or maybe just on looks alone, the person you say yes or maybe to, WILL take the time to read further, and then make a decision.