Topic: Conundrums in yes, no, maybe :) | |
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I had that happen in my mail once. Replied to one person and the page jumped just as I clicked the mouse. Got a nice reply asking me who I was I why I was mailing them? Derp (to borrow a storm message). :) I have done that as well. Luckily it was my work email and nothing private. Hasn't happened here yet. |
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it takes too long i get tired of no's after about 5 As another blogger said. It might be different for women. You are likely to be a yes or maybe for 90% of the men on this site. those saying yes are basing that on my picture alone really i don't want to go through judging people A person can be good looking but i know that means nothing about the person inside |
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it takes too long i get tired of no's after about 5 As another blogger said. It might be different for women. You are likely to be a yes or maybe for 90% of the men on this site. those saying yes are basing that on my picture alone really i don't want to go through judging people A person can be good looking but i know that means nothing about the person inside Some. I looked at your profile first. nice profile. I am not in your paramaters so no it was. :) |
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it takes too long i get tired of no's after about 5 As another blogger said. It might be different for women. You are likely to be a yes or maybe for 90% of the men on this site. those saying yes are basing that on my picture alone really i don't want to go through judging people A person can be good looking but i know that means nothing about the person inside Some. I looked at your profile first. nice profile. I am not in your paramaters so no it was. :) I don't have anything written out perposely maybe in future i will write something I have my reasons |
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Edited by
AdventureBegins
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Sun 09/27/15 08:46 PM
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it takes too long i get tired of no's after about 5 As another blogger said. It might be different for women. You are likely to be a yes or maybe for 90% of the men on this site. those saying yes are basing that on my picture alone really i don't want to go through judging people A person can be good looking but i know that means nothing about the person inside Some. I looked at your profile first. nice profile. I am not in your paramaters so no it was. :) I don't have anything written out perposely maybe in future i will write something I have my reasons I understand. I changed mine (likely for the same reason). Life is. |
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it takes too long i get tired of no's after about 5 As another blogger said. It might be different for women. You are likely to be a yes or maybe for 90% of the men on this site. those saying yes are basing that on my picture alone really i don't want to go through judging people A person can be good looking but i know that means nothing about the person inside exactly. I'm a person who wants someone to appreciate/accept all of me. when I was still searching, I didn't like being judged just by a pic. so I didn't judge by pics. I would read the little blurb on each person. I used no when it was someone completely on the opposite side of the world, when they had definite ideas that don't mesh with mine. I used maybe a lot and yes when there was definitely something that caught my attention. anymore, I don't check those out. just hang out in the forums or message with the friends I have made. |
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The yes,the no,the maybe...reminds me of the good,the bad,the ugly..tee hee... I check them here and there...usually just check no...mainly cause of distance...and most locals just don't interest me...tis life...
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Mine are piling up. It feels like I am judging them every time I delve into it.
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Edited by
jacktrades
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Sun 09/27/15 11:11 PM
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To me the whole exercise is futile. If I want to chat with someone or someone wants to chat with me why not send a email? A nudge I understand they are like flirting and I am flattered by them, but the match thing I just don't get, unless you are a premium member you can't see them anyway.
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i am reading...
lot's of strange ways of thinking going on |
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i am reading... lot's of strange ways of thinking going on Diverse thinkings bring forth the uncommon rose in even the most barren of gardens. |
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I believe so
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I stopped doing those yonks ago.
When I first got on dating sites I thought it could help to find someone. But it depends on the parameters used by the gadget. That's all it is, a gadget. And of course you'd get far more "no" than you would "yes" or "maybe". Finding the right partner is like finding a needle in a haystack. If everyone was a "Yes" there'd be something wrong with your own parameters of finding the one |
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I had that happen in my mail once. Replied to one person and the page jumped just as I clicked the mouse. Got a nice reply asking me who I was I why I was mailing them? Derp (to borrow a storm message). :) *giggling* You may utilize DERP... Or MEEP... Or... |
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