Topic: Why are you here?
Crumpledbug's photo
Sun 09/27/15 09:51 AM
Here to meet someone for a life-long relationship. I'm the sort of person who needs the motivation another can offer.

LovablePeter's photo
Sun 09/27/15 11:04 AM

Most of these women are here to waste men time. They are looking for a man that exist only in their imaginations. Some are fakes and scammers, while others are looking for a free meal

True at least from the responses I so far get from the Indian women here

LovablePeter's photo
Sun 09/27/15 11:05 AM

I've always been curious about the inner workings of the human mind. What makes folks do what they do. On that other site I'm on, Some months it's all I can do to get anyone to talk to me. Other times they are blowing up my inbox with one message after the other. Some want to gripe or ask me to do something about someone else.

A lot of times I get these that just want to either talk or blow off steam. This past week I had the opportunity to talk to several different women. They all pretty much wanted to talk about the same thing. Which led to all of them telling me pretty much the same thing.

None of them are that interested in any of the men that write them. I took it at face value. But when questioned a little bit, I got answers that at the very least seemed counter-productive to me.

When I asked how long each one had been on the site. All had been on site between 1 and 7 years. I asked each one if they ever got any dates. All had gotten dates at one time or the other. But none were interested in who they were dating.

What I don't understand, If you're not that interested in any of the men that write you, why are you on a dating site? Especially from 1 to 7 years. When asked, What do you do when guys write you? Some say they just un-read delete. And others said they read it and delete it. Either way, guys are writing for nothing. When asked, Why are you here then? Each one said the same thing, "I don't know." When I told each one that they were wasting other people's time and upsetting some. Some of them said they didn't care. Others were indifferent.

It's hard for me to wrap my brain around this type of behavior. Maybe some of you folks can enlighten me



For their ego satisfaction? They get excited to c so many men behind them?

1unluckyone's photo
Tue 09/29/15 01:00 PM
This place is a joke. You can not find anyone on here. I'm divorced. Been alone for 5yrs and ignored 8yrs. Ladies are not into relationships because they are already have a boyfriend or married. Not one is single

SitkaRains's photo
Tue 09/29/15 01:06 PM
I joined way back as a social outlet, since I lived and worked on a very small island. Through the years I have met some wonderful men out here.
They are still wonderful men just we weren't matches.

I don't think I have ever went on a date with someone just date. That to me sounds like a lot of extra work.

I did meet my BF out here and well so far so good and we are building a life together...

Why do I stay on Mingle to Mingle with the wonderful friends I have made and hopefully will make.




SitkaRains's photo
Tue 09/29/15 01:06 PM
Edited by SitkaRains on Tue 09/29/15 01:40 PM

Dang double post

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 09/29/15 01:27 PM
I am here because my movie's just finished :tongue:

Alright! I came here hoping to find that someone special.
Then I realised Mingle really helped to keep my English up to speed, as it was going down the drain really fast after I left my British ex. Faster than I expected after years of speaking English. I think for a while I wanted to get it out of my system, as if I'd get him out of it at the same time.
I got over that :) And my English is kind of back to where it was.

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Tue 09/29/15 01:31 PM
nothing wrong with your english at all crystal. now if we could just match you up with your next foriegn flamebigsmile

metalwing's photo
Tue 09/29/15 01:33 PM
I'm just addicted!

metalwing's photo
Tue 09/29/15 01:33 PM
I'm just addicted!

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Tue 09/29/15 01:34 PM
doubly solaugh

Annierooroo's photo
Tue 09/29/15 03:17 PM
I'm here because I have met some beautiful people and I can't leave them.


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Tue 09/29/15 03:18 PM
annie is hooked on the soap operalaugh

Annierooroo's photo
Tue 09/29/15 03:35 PM
:laughing:
And Eric isn't?

SitkaRains's photo
Tue 09/29/15 03:41 PM
Ok you two which soap opera this week I missed it

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Tue 09/29/15 03:48 PM
sorry no recaps or rerunstongue2

whalemstr's photo
Tue 09/29/15 03:58 PM
took
a
wrong
turn...

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Tue 09/29/15 04:02 PM
in albuquerque????

misstina2's photo
Tue 09/29/15 04:10 PM

This place is a joke. You can not find anyone on here. I'm divorced. Been alone for 5yrs and ignored 8yrs. Ladies are not into relationships because they are already have a boyfriend or married. Not one is single

flowerforyou joined 8/15/15 that's pretty recent you write not one is single :o you really believe that?well anyways i hope you find someone whether it be here or offlineflowerforyou

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Tue 09/29/15 04:14 PM
I'm looking for my keys. what