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Topic: older women
dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Sat 09/19/15 07:34 PM
Anyone tell me why so many women around my age are looking only younger men,won,t even allow my age to message them ? I wish you the best in your search. for me it's never been about age but compatibility. I used to never date younger men because I was taught shoulds and woulds. one day a friend introduced me to a nice guy. he happened to be 8 years younger. but we had a lot in common. things were great but it wasn't meant to be. I've also dated a guy that was fifteen years my senior. he was nice but i wasn't his happiness. It's a matter of what makes each person happy

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10858	Sat 09/19/15 10:59 PM
If it's ok for men to date younger women, then I guess it's ok for women to date younger men.

corkie49 Joined Fri 09/18/15 Posts: 176	Sat 09/19/15 11:16 PM
I don,t see anything wrong with women dating younger men,my point is they don,t allow older men to or men around their own age to message them !

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10858	Sat 09/19/15 11:24 PM
I had no filters on till very recently. If an older guy wanted to message me, they could have. Most guys who are in their 60's and 70's don't interest me.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Sat 09/19/15 11:28 PM
Hey no worries Corkie there are plenty of women on this site that like us older guys.Join the forums, meet some people, let them get to know you and good luck in your search.

TrystaBella85 Joined Thu 09/17/15 Posts: 298	Sat 09/19/15 11:33 PM
I don,t see anything wrong with women dating younger men,my point is they don,t allow older men to or men around their own age to message them ! What would be the point of them letting men they don't want to date message them? I have my filters set so I only get messages from certain types of men. I've seen others do the same, it means there are groups of people we don't want to talk to. It's pretty simple. I'm sure there are a few women your age who want to talk to you, you just have to find them.

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10858	Sat 09/19/15 11:34 PM
The last man that I dated that I really cared about, 1 1/2 years ago, was 19 years older than me. He gave up on me. I didn't give up on him.

corkie49 Joined Fri 09/18/15 Posts: 176	Sun 09/20/15 12:24 AM
And thats fair enough Catinidaho..your just a young girl..i would,nt be interested in you either lol

corkie49 Joined Fri 09/18/15 Posts: 176	Sun 09/20/15 12:25 AM
Thanks Jack..will do bud

ais69 Joined Thu 09/10/15 Posts: 1283	Sun 09/20/15 12:26 AM
Corkie, be nice dear

corkie49 Joined Fri 09/18/15 Posts: 176	Sun 09/20/15 12:27 AM
Cheers trystabella

corkie49 Joined Fri 09/18/15 Posts: 176	Sun 09/20/15 12:28 AM
Ais your lovely,but you look more like a ***** than a cougar lol

ais69 Joined Thu 09/10/15 Posts: 1283	Sun 09/20/15 12:29 AM
Ais your lovely,but you look more like a ***** than a cougar lol Was that a B1tch? Ty love

corkie49 Joined Fri 09/18/15 Posts: 176	Sun 09/20/15 12:29 AM
Ais..that was a pussycat...and i,m always nice

corkie49 Joined Fri 09/18/15 Posts: 176	Sun 09/20/15 12:31 AM
more fool him cat hugs hun....just trying to prove i,m always nice and mean no offence

ais69 Joined Thu 09/10/15 Posts: 1283	Sun 09/20/15 12:32 AM
How come u can type pussycat but not *****? Wasn't kind what u said to that young lady tho

corkie49 Joined Fri 09/18/15 Posts: 176	Sun 09/20/15 12:33 AM
Ais no love just a small domestic cat seems it means something else too ha ha

corkie49 Joined Fri 09/18/15 Posts: 176	Sun 09/20/15 12:35 AM
Ais,really hun i did,nt mean any offence..but shes just a young girl and i would,nt be interested in young girls its just the truth

corkie49 Joined Fri 09/18/15 Posts: 176	Sun 09/20/15 12:37 AM
Ais so am i right your just a pussycat in cougars clothing ?

ais69 Joined Thu 09/10/15 Posts: 1283	Sun 09/20/15 12:43 AM
Ais,really hun i did,nt mean any offence..but shes just a young girl and i would,nt be interested in young girls its just the truth Yes, but u could've chose ur words better, u know what i mean right?